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Ayselipera

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    Are you a virgin? If not how old were you when you lost your virginity? If so, are you waiting for a special someone or has the opportunity not presented itself yet?

    Please respond appropriately. If you feel obliged to post details redirect yourself to my pms xoxoxox.
     
    I'm 15 and I haven't lost it.

    I FEEL SO UNCOOL. >_<
    (Tbh I'm actually the virgin in my group and I'm one of the oldest people there, so...it is pretty uncool.)
     
    Controversial? said:
    I'm 15 and I haven't lost it.

    I FEEL SO UNCOOL. >_<
    (Tbh I'm actually the virgin in my group and I'm one of the oldest people there, so...it is pretty uncool.)
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    You're too young so you are cool for being the most mature.

    I haven't yet and doubt I ever will. I've never even been HUGGED (by anyone other than family) so yeah...>_>
     
    19, still have it, it's not going anywhere for a long time. It's going to the right person, and I'm a bit weird when it comes to that stuff, so it will probably be when I'm married. The thought of having sex without that tie of marriage scares me, and even weirder to me is having sex with more than one person in my life. It just doesn't seem right to me. Yeah, I know it's 2011, but I'm old fashioned and proud! Well, old fashioned in this department anyway. Haha.
     
    I didn't know this was considered an acceptable topic here but hey I don't mind~

    I am--*gasp*--a virgin. I have never felt much of a need for it, or at least not right at the moment. I don't see anything wrong with waiting and if I had to wait several years still, I would be okay with that. Sex has always felt like a very special thing to me--something you share with someone that you trust and love. So I wouldn't choose lightly and honestly it's a bit weird to me thinking of doing it with more than one person ever.
    Ayselipera said:
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    I have a feeling that you honestly don't even know how creepy that sounds.
     
    Yup, still a virgin. If I'm honest I don't really care that I'm still a virgin at 17 or 18 or whatever age. Sure they'll come a time when I'm a certain age and think that I need to do something about it otherwise I'm going to slip out of societies norms but for now it's not something I worry about. I worry a bit about not having a boyfriend but thats more of on an emotional side and a whole other story.
    Also I'm not saying when I get to a certain age I'm just gonna walk into a bar and take the first guy I meet home with me btw xD

    In my opinion I think there's too much stress on when people loose their virginity. Yes there is going to be those people who think the person their with is special but I think that there's a lot of people who do it purely from peer pressure or because of other means. If you look at it from a religious or a scientific point of view then what your saying is that your attempting to reproduce and give life to something simply because everyone else is doin' it. I think that's kind of silly if you ask me.

    I might have strayed off a tad bit there but what ever xD
     
    If anyone was planning to report this thread, I appreciate it but I did approve it before it was posted. As long as everybody can remain relatively mature on the subject and nobody starts posting graphic details (and if you do, you'll be dealt with accordingly), I don't see anything wrong with asking the question. Though if you want to forward graphic details to Ayselipera, that is between you and her lol.

    So that said, no I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity three years ago when I was eighteen years old. It was actually right around this time of year if I remember correctly! People often say the first time is awkward and uncomfortable, but I didn't find that at all. I think I was lucky. Though my partner had been a friend for a long time so we were already incredibly comfortable with each other and trusted one another completely.

    Also, I don't really want to start a debate because this is OVP, but I don't think 15 is too young to have sex. As long as you use protection AND DON'T MAKE BABIES, I see nothing wrong with having sex as early as you develop a desire for it. That said, if you don't feel ready, then don't do it. I agree that there is far too much pressure on people as to when to lose their virginity. I say just go with whatever feels right for you. Sex should never be a source for shame - whether you've had sex at 13 or are a virgin at 27, there is no shame either way. That's just my opinion.
     
    Sydian said:
    19, still have it, it's not going anywhere for a long time. It's going to the right person, and I'm a bit weird when it comes to that stuff, so it will probably be when I'm married. The thought of having sex without that tie of marriage scares me, and even weirder to me is having sex with more than one person in my life. It just doesn't seem right to me. Yeah, I know it's 2011, but I'm old fashioned and proud! Well, old fashioned in this department anyway. Haha.
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    Same here...that's my opinion too ^^
     
    I'm still a virgin. I did have the opportunity to lose it two times before, but two things prevented me from doing it. I get the feeling that if I give it away to someone, our relationship would end eventually and I'm going to regret giving it to that person, who probably wouldn't mean anything to me later in life. I think I'm going to save myself until marriage. Honestly, I think I'd probably be somewhat promiscuous if I wasn't afraid of that. There's also one other thing holding me back that I'm not comfortable with sharing, but if you know me, and are wondering, feel free to ask me privately!
     
    I am a virgin, and I am not ashamed. I questioned even posting in this thread. If you meet someone, want to, and are safe about it - good for you. But I personally haven't and I refuse to be pressured to do so. I do not think virginity is a curse, nor something to be praised for. It is a term that is placed on people who have not done something.

    Historically, mating was needed to keep a species alive, but I think we can all recognize that the human species does not need to excessively procreate. If anything we should learn to control unplanned procreation.

    EDIT: I'd also like to dispel the idea that keeping your V is "old fashioned" it can be to certain people, and keeping it for religious reasons is certainly noble, but it can be part of any belief system, I consider refraining from procreating part of preventing overpopulation, and ensuring that future generations have proper resources and care, so that they are not raised on child support, or as a burden to their parents.
     
    Trance and Moss said:
    EDIT: I'd also like to dispel the idea that keeping your V is "old fashioned" it can be to certain people, and keeping it for religious reasons is certainly noble, but it can be part of any belief system, I consider refraining from procreating part of preventing overpopulation, and ensuring that future generations have proper resources and care, so that they are not raised on child support, or as a burden to their parents.
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    I agree with you...my religion doesn't allow that without marrige and this is something i like..it makes me feel better about myself beside people who don't mind losing that what would make them special for the person they choose to marry in the future...being virgin is something i feel proud of i'm never ashamed of it ..^^
     
    I'm still a virgin, like around half of the people that has responded, & I most likely will be one of those rarities that will end up still having that even in their 40s, as I can never find that someone to be with.

    But that's okay. Since having children is the last thing that's on my mind, especially now, I don't mind that the only way for me to have sex is through prostitution, which is illegal anyway.
     
    I am still a virgin. And I plan to be so until I get married/whatever the equivalent is. And I don't plan on getting married soon, so yeah, it's not going anywhere anytime soon. :P
     
    Shining Raichu said:
    If anyone was planning to report this thread, I appreciate it but I did approve it before it was posted. As long as everybody can remain relatively mature on the subject and nobody starts posting graphic details (and if you do, you'll be dealt with accordingly), I don't see anything wrong with asking the question. Though if you want to forward graphic details to Ayselipera, that is between you and her lol.
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    INTRIGUING.

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    I am twenty one and have yet to lose my virginity. I am just so incredibly bad when it comes to romance lol. I like to think of myself as a fairly talented individual who has a broad range of skills and such. But when it comes down to love, I think I am a lost cause lol. Let me put this in Yu-Gi-Oh terms for you.

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    This is Five-Headed Dragon - the ultimate sex god. Able to please any woman, this is what almost every man desires to eventually become.

    And on the other end of the spectrum . . .

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    We have the basic insect. Like most insects, they are stepped on by society but that's a tale for another time. The basic insect is practically incapable of getting any "action" for one reason or another. This is basically where I am at lol.

    I guess there have been one or two opportunities for me to get laid when encountering women at night clubs on the rare occasion I ventured into one on a night out. Oh yeah, lightsabers are freaking babe magnets in a night club seriously. Twas an incredible discovery when it happened lol. I sometimes get those "signals" or signs" from women at those clubs but I never respond to them. I just naturally shy away from those sorts of things, probably because I don't want to be taken out of my comfort zone or something.

    You know that saying that goes "I'm a lover, not a fighter"? I think for me, it's "I'm a fighter, not a lover" lol.
     
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    I lost mine 2 years ago (19) to a girl I had known for 6 years. Was pretty over rated really and the girl ended up going mental on me and we now no longer talk... Moral of the story. Don't sleep with a good friend haha.
     
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