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Good advice Lash.

The best thing to do is ignore them and if someone asks you why you won't stand up for yourself, just say: "I DON"T REPLY TO TRASH"

Anyway, they'll stop doing this after a while, count on it.

There is no way everyone calls you gay. Just because some people say it, it doesn't mean that everyone thinks it.

Surround yourself with good friends, that helps.

Hope this helps buddy.
 
Hmmm well I know how you feel, it happened to me not to long ago. I was lucky though, a lot of people find me funny so... What good qualities have you got? ( Many ^^ ) If so work on one, and belive in yourself. Still no results then punch them. I hate ( no offense to anyone here ) how people think bullying can be solved by 'telling a teacher' when it's so much more deep than that....

Hope it gets better -_-
 
Telling a teacher could make things worse sometimes, so I would avoid that...
But also, violence doesn't solve the problem. As a matter of fact, it would actually cause Oliver some new problems...
 
Where do you live? Because in my school punching someone really would solve everything...... Violence is still wrong and should only be used as a last resort.
 
~Pur3viL said:
Where do you live? Because in my school punching someone really would solve everything...... Violence is still wrong and should only be used as a last resort.
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I'm going to have to disagree, violence isnt a last resort, and is in no way a way to solve a problem... :/

The real question is Where do you live? Because a good punch isnt going to solve a thing, just inrage more problems.
Violence should only in my opinion be self-defence to get away. That's it!

So I don't see how violence helps... Yes telling a teacher could lead on other things, but an authoriy figure is the best option, not decking the fool that tuants him. Telling may seem "oh tatle tail" but I'd rather have the school police keeping an eye out on me and the person that gives me tuants, and what not.
 
Hmm.. well
@Lash Thanks but i live in the UK.. We theres no counclers or crap like that xD + I'm in Year 9 Which is 13-14 year olds.. Dunno about america

@Darkk Well your wrong. Everybody does call me gay. Not the teachers but everybody! Evan my cloest friend calls me gay behind my back..

Just to say. I'm not going to commit Sucicide. I'm not that dumb
 
Mismaguis said:
Hmm.. well
@Lash Thanks but i live in the UK.. We theres no counclers or crap like that xD + I'm in Year 9 Which is 13-14 year olds.. Dunno about america

@Darkk Well your wrong. Everybody does call me gay. Not the teachers but everybody! Evan my cloest friend calls me gay behind my back..

Just to say. I'm not going to commit Sucicide. I'm not that dumb
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Aww :( *hugs* I agree with what Lash said: before you do anything, I think you should talk to someone, particularly your mum or a counselor. It will make you feel better and a lot less alone, trust me. Yeah, we do have them in the UK... unless you live in the middle of nowhere XD
 
Hmm i live in the middle of england. And i don't think we do in my school :(
 
Mismaguis said:
Hmm.. well
@Lash Thanks but i live in the UK.. We theres no counclers or crap like that xD + I'm in Year 9 Which is 13-14 year olds.. Dunno about america

@Darkk Well your wrong. Everybody does call me gay. Not the teachers but everybody! Evan my cloest friend calls me gay behind my back..

Just to say. I'm not going to commit Sucicide. I'm not that dumb
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Maybe you can do something to shut all them up, or to prove your not gay. Well mmmm, I dont know....Ask out a girl you like or something.
If your friends are calling you gay, they're not your friends, what you need to do is live life without listening to everyones rubbish.

If someone calls you gay, say your straight but dont get mad. And talking to a higher authority figure wouldnt be that bad of an idea.
I've never been in this sitchu to be honest, so Im not fully sure, is there any possible way you could transfer? If your parents knew about everyone calling you gay and being misarabe maybe they can work something out.
 
The weird thing is, i've asked a girl out. She said no of course. But they still carried on.. She is like the only girl who doesn't call me gay. Which is quite nice. She gives me hugs an all thats quite nice. But not an improvement.

OFFTOPIC:
Made an anti-bullying thread for clubs.. check other clubs forum
 
Mismaguis said:
The weird thing is, i've asked a girl out. She said no of course. But they still carried on.. She is like the only girl who doesn't call me gay. Which is quite nice. She gives me hugs an all thats quite nice. But not an improvement.

OFFTOPIC:
Made an anti-bullying thread for clubs.. check other clubs forum
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hmmmmm....Well I would definitly keep making her your best friend.

Do you know why anyone would call you gay?
 
I really don't think he should transfer.. it's not a solution to run away from your problems.
Oliver, you should face those people, but not in a violent way.
 
Why they call me gay? Hmmm well.. My voice broke like 2 month ago, People say i walk and act gay >.<
 
Mismaguis said:
Hmm i live in the middle of england. And i don't think we do in my school :(
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It's OK, don't give up. Talk to your parents about it and tell them how much it's upsetting you. It would be a good start.

BeachBoy said:
Maybe you can do something to shut all them up, or to prove your not gay. Well mmmm, I dont know....Ask out a girl you like or something.
If your friends are calling you gay, they're not your friends, what you need to do is live life without listening to everyones rubbish.

If someone calls you gay, say your straight but dont get mad. And talking to a higher authority figure wouldnt be that bad of an idea.
I've never been in this sitchu to be honest, so Im not fully sure, is there any possible way you could transfer? If your parents knew about everyone calling you gay and being misarabe maybe they can work something out.
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Yeah, whatever you do, don't get mad when they call you gay. It's what they want you to do. They probably enjoy it when they see you getting angry and/or upset over it. So umm try not to react much to make it boring for them.
 
~Pur3viL said:
Ok well first of all, don't get jealous ^^ It's a fact that most people get jealous when there GF/BF hangs out with other people, but just relax and calm down, she hasn't forgotton about you! About Valentines day, why not the movies? Just say your going as friends.

PS: Chocolates taste nice and are a good prezzie ^_!
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I can't take her to the movies.. ;-; She lives 12 hours away ._. Thank you! ^^
 
Jealousy is natural, but as PurEvil said, don't show it, or act on it. It shows a massive sign of insecurity.

If you show it, your basically saying "I can't get a girlfriend! I must keep this one! If anyone looks at her, she's cheating, because she doesn't really like me! I'm not good enough too be liked, so she is lying!"

I know that is not the case with you. I get jealous as well, and I know I'm self consious. But I don't show it.
 
sims796 said:
Jealousy is natural, but as PurEvil said, don't show it, or act on it. It shows a massive sign of insecurity.

If you show it, your basically saying "I can't get a girlfriend! I must keep this one! If anyone looks at her, she's cheating, because she doesn't really like me! I'm not good enough too be liked, so she is lying!"

I know that is not the case with you. I get jealous as well, and I know I'm self consious. But I don't show it.
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So I shouldn't tell her when Im jealous? I don't beilieve she's cheating on me.. I just get a bit jealous because her friends can see her when ever they want, where I can't because of the distance.. Thank you for the advice ^^
 
Well, if that's the case, go ahead, but don't be too serious about it. That can be offensive.
 
MY best friend goes out with someone i fancy, i really like her but i also like my Best friend, what should i do?
 
Don`t do anything. You are still young. There will be plenty more girls when you get older. But good best friends are hard to fine. Try and be with them. If you can't then just be with your best friend when they aren't together.
 
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