This may be hocus pocus, but I believe words have energy. Why do people feel hurt with some words?
It's just like listening to music. I'm being obvious here, they do impact one--depending on the individual. Even written words.
Just not too long ago, I found an article where they
tried it out with snowflakes.
Now, when it comes to normal conversations; I find profanity to be dirty. Almost trashy.
Casually done, it makes their circle get an uncomfortable (because it's private) or stupid/angry atmosphere. It's either unwelcoming or sickening.
Personally, I don't like when one abuses profane words, so I just avoid them. I don't feel hurt because I'm used to them. If I see a friend starting to say 'em frequently, I usually ask them just to calm down.
I like to be treated with respect, so I normally don't swear out loud.
Although I'm alright when it's done in a humorous case, because overall, you laugh at a joke because you didn't expect the outcome.
I think it's best for kids to stay away from profanity and they should just stick with creative alternatives or better yet, learn interesting vocabulary.
As for others, I think people should tone them down and use them whenever necessary like venting out anger. Unless you live in an area where everyone likes to appear unpleasant and you want to 'fit in.'