The Post Your Problems Thread

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Serperior said:
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Looking to the bottom of a pill bottle isn't the answer. =]

Some people are idiots, fact. I have come across many of them in my 21 years of my life. But if I let them get to me every single time, I wouldn't be here.
It is always tough when someone betrays you, if it is big or small. But it is, unfortunately, a part of life. The hardest part is moving on.

I am sorry that this has happened to you and I am sorry you are on medication, but you have to will to get through it. I am sure you do. Those people are not worth you time, so there is no point even thinking about it anymore. There are plenty of decent people out there. A few are actually on this forum. You just need to keep searching. If you think people are taking avantage of you, maybe you are too nice. In the sense that you are too giving and such. Try to get to know someone better and maybe then you will know what they are like before you get hurt?

I am sorry I can't help more, but don't give up. Everyone experiences something like this in their life. The test is to get through it. =]​
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Serperior said:
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No. That is entirely the wrong way to go about it. Whatever you do, don't do it. You will regret it entirely.

There are going to be people who betray you, people who mock you. People who say that you aren't good enough. People who ditch you for others. You can't take to heart everything that everyone says. Haters gon' hate. But you know what you have to do? Keep your chin, put that smile on, and give them a metaphorical(literal if you want) middle finger by showing them that you don't need them, that you don't care what they have to say. You have to show them what they chose to leave behind. They are the idiots for leaving a wonderful person behind. Just show them that. Confidence is key.
 
Dumbo Decus said:
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;_; rip kura

Serperior said:
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There's not much I can suggest beside finding people who have a common interest. You can't force people to like you, but if they have a reason to like you and vice versa the relationship will be a lot healthier. If it's a problem you have then you should think about trying to fix that about yourself, if making friends is something you want to do. Don't do it specifically for other people though, do it because it's what you want for yourself. Don't just try to fit in with people if you aren't actually happy with them. You wouldn't have to work to fit in, in a group of like minded people anyways.

I hope things work out for you, I really do. Nobody deserves to be alone.
 
Any Tips?

Ok, so theres this really pretty girl at school and I told her I love her 3 times.
Every time she just ran off.
She says we're good friends.
Also, when e speaks to me, she fiddles with her hair.
Any help plz.
 
You're ten... Okay. For one... Maybe you're two young to be telling people you "love" them? Also, I don't see what fiddling with ones' hair has to do with that equation.
 
If they're running away that's usually a sign a girl isn't ready or doesn't want to be in that kind of relationship with you. :x

But I mean, she could be just nervous, to. :D
 
@ Capris
I guess....
But I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.
 
At your age, you probably don't understand what love really means. The girl is too shy to talk to you or maybe she has no interest. The whole "fiddling her hair" doesn't mean anything. So, my suggestion is to just be friends with her.
 
See that's the thing.
Just because I'm 10 doesn't mean I can't feel love.
What about : I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.
 
Umbreon Bob said:
I can't sleep. It's 5:50 am right now and I have school in 2 hours. I honestly dont know what to do.
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Stay in bed then.​
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The Explorer Of Destiny said:
See that's the thing.
Just because I'm 10 doesn't mean I can't feel love.
What about : I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.
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I am sorry, but you don't feel true love.
I have never known or seen a 10 year old to stay faithful, since they were 10, grow up with that person, get married and live out their days together. Because, if you love her, you want to spend the rest of your life with her, yes?

I don't think so. It is a crush. You are attracted to her. But if you thought you overheard her saying that, ask her.​
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Well...I would side with you...except when I was 10, I was depressed, so yeah...

But ED, you shouldn't love her. I mean, you can try, but it's probably not going to work out until you mature a little. Go out with her, who knows, maybe you'll stay together.

We're not telling you what to do, I mean really who listens to someone on a forum? So ask her out when you think the time is right, got your friendship in check, and be prepared to get rejected.

It may take a while, but you obviously like her enough to at least do that much, right?

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Anyway, I have my own problems. You see...I have a surgery coming up, apparently I have premature bone growth in my nose, so they're going to basically cut open my face/nose, and I have the choice on whether to do it or not. I have 3 days to decide, so what should I do?
 
インフェルノの津波 said:
Anyway, I have my own problems. You see...I have a surgery coming up, apparently I have premature bone growth in my nose, so they're going to basically cut open my face/nose, and I have the choice on whether to do it or not. I have 3 days to decide, so what should I do?
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This is a big question, I am not sure you should be asking us. :/
But I will give you my advice anyway!

Ok, so first off, is this bone growth going to cause you any major pain in the future or going to cause, say, a deformity? I don't know much on the condition, so I wouldn't know. But if it is going to make life easier for you, then I would go ahead with it.​
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The Explorer Of Destiny said:
See that's the thing.
Just because I'm 10 doesn't mean I can't feel love.
What about : I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.
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Yes, it does. [/bubble]

not to sound heartless, but.. Really, dude. Have fun with girls but please don't try to love anyone. You'll look back in not even ten years and think "wtf was I thinking??"

But cheer up! It's not the end. Like I said have fun with girls. ESPECIALLY since you're ten. ;)
 
At school tomorrow, I have to do a talk in front of all my English class. I was supposed to do it today, but I got too nervous and asked to do it tomorrow instead. The thing is...I just don't have the confidence to do it, and it's important because it is a third of my final English grade. What should I do?
 
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