"The things I do for love..."

(Love the title)

I spend too much money
 
I am to a fault, I've let people take advantage of me in the past.
 
definitely. even when someone is mean to me, i have a hard time being mean back. i've been walked on all over too many times and been screwed over a lot because people like to take advantage of me because i'm so nice, but i hope to change that by (trying) key word: trying, to stand up for myself
 
I guess on love...

I was willing to adjust my everything, whatever it took to either please her or stay by her side. I was young and wasn't aware I was actually in love, so I think that makes sense. If I had the feeling she didn't like my t-shirt, I would never wear that one again (I remember this exact moment). If I felt like she disapproved of my behaviour at some point, I did my best to correct that behaviour and get her approval of doing that. I was willing to change my entire high school subjects package to a different one because I thought she chose that package. Someone once said I turned into a bitch around her - I guess that happened, too.

Don't think that will happen next time. I was very dependent of her because she was my first female friend in forever, as well as my bridge to other social interactions, and as a result of that got very attached to her, her opinion, her everything. Now, though I might rely on another person as a social clutch, I am not willing to change myself for somoene at all. So I'm not sure what I'd do actually.
 
In a romantic relationship I am very nice and will do a lot and spend a lot of money as well. In normal relationships I do not let people take advantage of me at all. I cannot stand that. I usually will do favors for people, but when I need something and someone refuses to help me after all I have done for them I drop them quick. Also I have a very short fuse and was brought up not to take anything from anyone. My dad brought me up pretty well on that front.
 
The title is mostly just a reference. If you didn't get it, you ain't a 90's kid.

It can be either romantic, or general. Take your picks. XD
 
yea i used to be *too* nice and i would expect the same from everyone else, and get bitter and angry when they didnt meet my expectations

i was a total shithead

now i dont care and im nice when i want to be. life is good
 
I tend to be nice to people, so they may take that as being passive. But I don't think I am, if someone does wrong by me.
But, yes I think I put up with a lot for love of family.
 
Very. I can be firm, but only to a certain extent. Rather than scolding someone I'm better at empathizing and trying to mediate things. Online I guess it's harder to tell since typing through the computer's a whole different story, but irl I have some difficulty being blunt. Leaves me feeling stressed afterwards. ;(
 
yeah definitely. i say yes to pretty much anything honestly
 
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