I read this title as "which gender do you take to bed."
If you asked me this two years ago before I really got involved on PC, my answer would have been a very solid statement that I got along better with and connected to girls, but now I'm not so sure.
Like many others, the main people I turn to talk to in both casual chit chat and serious discussions is a collection of both girls and guys. Lately, though, I've found that I connect more with online would be more guys than girls. Not in a sense that I talk to them about typical guy things, but in a sense that they listen to me, I listen to them, and then when the other is finished, we don't really have to worry about the other going to someone and starting something. That's offline, though.
Online is much harder to decide because of such a mix the people I confide in. But it seems like whenever I'm asking advice for something, I go to five people in particular. Three are guys, two are girls.
As far as having a real connection with someone, that's obvious if you know me. I've only had a true connection like that with one person. She would be a girl.