To be honest I wouldn't mind having a male child first, because I know if I have a second child whether it be male or female, the older brother can help them out when stuck in a difficult situation, such as bullies. However, at the same time, to me it is more so what ever is born first is meant to happen, so if it is a girl I wouldn't mind as I would still love it because it is my child. I am a lover of kids and I enjoy spending time with them. Ever since I was small I liked taing care of babies so the day when I have my own child comes, I'll be happy no matter what. As for names however, I'm still in the midst of deciding all of that.