"Absolutely lonely people have few personal interactions of any kind."

Serious boredom.
Sometimes, but not because of "nobody understand me" thing. It's from another reason.
 
what is this, like the 7th thread you've made?

I feel lonely and misunderstood sometimes, but there's nothing wrong with that.
 
Nobody understands me but that doesn't mean I bask in self-pity.
 
If people don't understand me, it's because I don't tell them about myself much. There are some things I don't want people knowing, after all.

I'm not lonely, but if I was in the past, it was because I hadn't made the effort to make a lot of friends.
 
I think about a handfew of people actually understand - or even bother to understand me - but I feel lonely a great deal of the day. It's nothing really bad, though. In most cases, I prefer to be alone than around a lot of people. It's much easier to think. So I guess, in a way, that's not exactly loneliness. It's just controlled solitude.
 
im not very social irl. it's less that people dont "get" me and more that i dont "get" everyone else
 
I do, especially when my little brother was born. :F
 
i think everybody feels lonely at times, some more often than others, some for longer periods than others etc etc...me? i prefer my own company more often not...i'm simply not interesting enough to attract anyone's attention...not to mention i've got this huge indifference to what society deems important...so in a way that almost makes me an outcast...not a problem cause i prefer it this way and can't imagine my life being any different

i've experienced loneliness before but nothing i'd describe as chronic nor problematic
 
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i think everybody feels lonely at times, some more often than others, some for longer periods than others etc etc...me? i prefer my own company more often not...i'm simply not interesting enough to attract anyone's attention...not to mention i've got this huge indifference to what society deems important...so in a way that almost makes me an outcast...not a problem cause i prefer it this way and can't imagine my life being any different

i've experienced loneliness before but nothing i'd describe as chronic nor problematic
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Ur MOM is interesting enough to attract my attention

As for loneliness, the most fun activities available to man are still done together. Thus it's always unfortunate when you don't enjoy anyone's company and can't do much.
 
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Ur MOM is interesting enough to attract my attention

As for loneliness, the most fun activities available to man are still done together. Thus it's always unfortunate when you don't enjoy anyone's company and can do much.
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to be fair, your standards are rather skew...

"fun" is not universal, but subjective and decided by each of us...the most fun activities available according to your assessment is what you meant...it's unfortunate when you feel you need and want something you can't achieve, definitely
 
I didn't really make an effort to make friends in the past because I did feel lonely quite often. I suppose I felt like I couldn't really connect to people that well and when I was around a few people I felt I could totally up open to, they...didn't seem to care. Sooo it's quite easy to feel like that when I remember my past.
 
Nobody understands me because the personality I am around people is totally different from my true one, so they think they know me. ;D

But yeah, I'm lonely almost 24/7, but it's not because no one understands me. I'm just a naturally lonely person. XD
 
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Nobody understands me because the personality I am around people is totally different from my true one, so they think they know me. ;D

But yeah, I'm lonely almost 24/7, but it's not because no one understands me. I'm just a naturally lonely person. XD
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What's this 24/7 lonely. I thought Midori Chi & your bossy mom were enough company for you! :)
 
I'm don't feel lonely actually but I have felt I am misunderstood. Because I'm a little different than other black dudes they come in contact with that automatically labels me as being "gay" or "feminine." I like to be reserved and hate talking to people actually and most find that weird actually.
 
Yea i feel lonely a lot. Mostly due to the fact that i have about 3 true friends and they all live miles away from me. And i'm actually afraid to attempt to make friends that live near me because i live in such a rough area and if i acted like my real self i would either get extreamly bullied or i would get stabbed/shot/ran over (and yes people have had that done to them for much less than being weird).

if only making friends was as easy as it was on this site. :(
 
Dude.

I like anime, listen to Vocaloid, and, despite my jerkish outward appearance, am actually quite a nice guy, though nobody would believe that...

Well, that's mainly because my family (and other adults that I interact with) aren't tied down by idiotic stereotypes and arrogant views of reality. -_-

Anyways, all that...

And I live in the South. Yeah, I'm considered mildly odd. People nowadays are so... unfriendly and fake. I'm odd because I'm expressive and nice, but...

I prefer my own company, just because I like to be alone and have more freedom to do stuff, and...

I rant a lot.

And stuff. ^^;
 
I'm hardly a pillar of solitude, but I am more of a listener than a talker, and I also tend to get lost in my own head.

Something I strive towards is not being fake. I limit how much I'm willing to talk about myself, depending on the person, but I do my utmost not to delude others about who I am.
 
I feel more lonely now than I ever have, but I think at this point, it's because I'm not letting people in. I think I'd feel less lonely if I actually had friends to talk with and hang out with more often. So I see it as self-imposed loneliness, I suppose. I must not care that much, because I'm not doing anything to fix the problem. Or maybe I don't know how to fix it. idk.
 
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