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Kanzler

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    Are you interested in having a relationship (not necessarily with me :x)? How goes the search/quiet observation? What are you looking for in a relationship? Is it easy or hard to find? Are you picky or easy to please?

    For those of you already in a couple, how did your partner meet your expectations? Did you judge them a lot or did they just slip under your skin? :O
     
    hmm well I'm not LOOKING for anyone but I must admit, it would be nice to have someone by my side that understands me. I've been in a relationship before and it didn't end well... not at all xD
     
    I'd say my guy exceeded my expectations. I couldn't be happier, honestly.
     
    "Quiet observation" is actually pretty accurate. I'm not actively looking for a relationship, but I'm always scoping out potential mates surrounded by attractive people that I wouldn't ever approach. Never being in a relationship, I honestly don't look for much. And I feel like I'd be easy to please, just having someone to spend time with and get to know on a daily (or whenever) basis would be nice. Thusly, I think I'd be pretty whipped, because I'm always worrying about what I'm doing wrong and would pretty much do whatever to please the other person in the relationship.
     
    I'm not looking right now, but I'm considering it. I just want a singular person I can connect with in a really deep emotional way. I want someone who understands me, who I can joke around with, who I can have a deep and intelligent conversation with, who I can have a laid back conversation with, and someone who appreciates what I have to say as well as my sense of humor and someone who I can do the same with. Just as long as there is some type of connection between the two of us, then I'll be happy.

    I just want someone I can passionately sing Wrecking Ball with.
     
    It's complicated. It's not really my priority atm to find someone whom I can have connections with in a romantic manner, but I'm not urging myself to do so. I have better priorities right now. A relationship can wait. It's hard to find one here where I live.
     
    I look, and I look, and I look… and I look some more. When I find that perfect girl, I move in on her and start to get to know her over the course of a month. See what her interests are, what her family's like, etc; you know, the general "knowing your future partner" kind of thing.

    What happens two weeks in? She's in the lunchroom one morning after I asked her out to a movie (which she temporarily declined because her father was in the hospital in Oklahoma), dancing around with some playboy that I saw her meet last week. What the good God damn woman! I spent all that time trying to get to know you, empathize with you, listen to you ramble on about your step parents, and how do I get thanked for caring about your every problem? Really?

    I really need to wait 'til college for this nonsense, since apparently your average high schooler's relationship concept is literally one rung above junior high behavior.
     
    A relationship is really the last thing I'm worried about right now. I'm still hurt from my last one and I have much, much more pressing issues than being in a relationship.

    In the future, when I'm all settled down, I just want someone who loves me for who I am.
     
    Although it'd be nice to have someone to share everything with, I'm not particularly or specifically always on the lookout for someone who meets my expectations XD And being in a relationship is not one of my main priorities at the moment, but I do have someone who I've been interested in for a few months >.<
     
    Hmm, a relationship would be nice. But I have no need for one! I have a fair amount of good friends and they keep me from being lonely, so I don't pine for anyone. I mean, I have a crush, but that's no big deal. We're friends first. :3 But I'm sure I'll start pining for a relationship once I get lonely again. 'Cause everyone's going off to uni in the next few years so i won't have my emotional safety net. :|
     
    One day, yes. Right now, no. I just am not ready for that type of commitment. When the right person comes along though I just have to be ready and I think I will be. As for now, I am gonna be happy being single and I feel that itself will help me appreciate the person even more when I do finally meet them.
     
    I've got an ongoing "friends with benefits" style relationship that I'd really like to advance further, but other than that I've got no romantic ambitions. I'm more concerned with finishing my studies and getting to a point where I can live comfortably instead of barely getting by. XD
     
    I'm not really looking but if the right person came around and swept me off my feet I wouldn't complain.

    It would take quite the person though. I have huge intimacy issues.
     
    I'm not looking for a relationship. If I ever come across someone and we get together then so be it, but it's not something I'm actively pursuing at the moment. Mind you, when I'm in uni next year (hopefully), that will completely change, haha. :p
     
    I'm not really looking for a relationship right now (or at least not a romantic one).I'm completely fine with being single. And it will the be 21st year of being single on Valentine's Day. I get attracted to people (like many of us do) , but I never make a move.
     
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    It's not going well. Partly because I'm super picky, but mostly because I have a lot of other stuff on my plate right now. I don't know if I could juggle it all in addition to a relationship. So I'm not actively looking. But if the right person came along I'd try to work it out.
     
    Nope, not looking for somebody to have relationship! One day she'll come my life herself!:P But looking for ansirent and mussadiq! They have been offline for days and my hack's publishing is left to be done!>:(
     
    I was looking for someone but I'm not now. I've put myself out there three times now and come up short three times. I'm kind of over it already lol. All I have to show for it is wasted time and some mild humiliation.

    I'll get back into it when I get over feeling sorry for myself but yeah dating sucks lol
     
    This is a tough question, fuurrr sure. I've been asked out, by both boys and girls, but I've never said yes, it's not like I didn't like them, it's just I wanted to like them more then I did. I'm one of those idiots who's just on love with the idea of being in love, and is barely able to give anybody a little chance. It would be great to have like a companion or something though. We could read and have adventures and eat cake in our onesies together, omg I'm going to go cry about the perfect person now.
    And eat cake.
     
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