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I may take a break from forums soon.
I need to work on my calmness more. :/ I still get too upset when things don't go my way on forums, and I really upset my mom over it yesterday....
Maybe i'll get into some kind of anime or video game while i'm gone lol
I'm rather concerned at how you seem to rely on 'happiness' as a crutch and force yourself to feel it at all times, otherwise you get stressed or upset. You never even respond to anyone who disagrees with you on anything, I've noticed, thus you refuse to add to a conversation and simply retreat when there's anything but that air of happiness you want to cling to.
This is a very unstable mentality, as things sometimes just don't go your way, people disagree, etc, and it's better to just accept the fact that you might not always feel happy and that some might disagree with sometimes. Wouldn't you agree it beats feeling like you do now and those outbursts?
I don't think anyone here is particularly hostile when it comes to disagreement, so if you want my advice, you should work on that instead of just further retreating.
But it's your life, I suppose. Just throwing in my opinion.