I am SO hot!

Nick

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    Self esteem / confidence / whatever.

    We all have little things that (usually temporarily) boost this for us. What "(usually temporarily) little things" boosts your self esteem?
     
    The little things that boost myself esteem is usually my appearance. My hair for example, is liked by practically everyone that I walk by, the way my eyes look (many people say it is beautiful) and when I put eyeliner and mascara on, they look even more better and they sparkle.


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    My self-esteem is inversely proportional to the number of people around. So when I'm alone, I feel like I'm the king of the world, in a group of four or five I'm still comfortable, in a group of nine or ten I always feel awkward, and crowds make me want to scream/die/whatever.
     
    When I am right about something. xD I seem to be wrong about stuff very often (mostly little stuff, like, "He was wearing a red shirt" "Nope, it was blue" "Damn. >__<") so when I am right, it just makes me go "Whee!" xD
     
    When someone important to me says something really sweet or meaningful to me. It's just the biggest self esteem booster I can think of. Even though these things are usually just a temporary boost I will think of them again later on when I'm not feeling so great and it will definitely make me feel better.
     
    Some people I know in school appreciate the fact that I like Pokemon, so that boosts my self esteem to an extent.
     
    My confidence gets boost whenever someone says how hot or good looking I am. To which I respond with; Hmph. >///< I don't believe it, though. xD Also, when someone tells me I'm really intelligent or in their words a "genius". Which I also don't think is true. xD
    But my confidence really gets boost whenever someone praise something I did and tell me I did a great job.^^
     
    Hah! Whenever i wear my new clothes, and my hair looks just right~ Even though I usually look the same as usual theres just something about meeting your own standards that makes you feel good~
     
    When people give me compliments, my confidence goes up. I like compliments, we all do. So naturally, a compliment makes me feel good about myself for a certain period of time. But it takes a lot to raise my self esteem, something which has been very low for a very long time. I mean, I won't lie, I do take a lot of pictures. But I have this theory that may sound stupid to you, but it makes sense to me. Basically, I feel that if I take enough pictures of myself (not like a cam ***** but you know what I mean), over time I will begin to feel comfortable in my own skin. This little 'experiment' per say won't work for everyone, but I think that it'll work for me. Ultimately, I will feel that the experiment will be completed if I can post a picture of myself and not care what people will think of it.
     
    this is going to sound so nerdy, but educational achievements. i feel accomplished looking at a certificate and knowing i put in all that hard work for it and got great marks.

    and when people attribute even a little inspiration to me, that makes me feel really great (:
     
    Let's see... The things that really boost my self esteem are when others come forward on their own and genuinely compliment me. I like to know when what I say is valued or when what I create as an artist is enjoyed. I like to know when someone thinks I'm a good friend. Those sorts of things.

    One of the more passive things that boosts my self esteem are my friends. Just having them around makes me feel better about life in general.
     
    Appreciation and accomplishments. Even better when I do something for someone else and they really understand the effort I put into it. I can look like a hot mess and hate myself all day but if someone tells me 'thanks' then I feel like 50 times better.

    And I wanna echo what Yellow said about friends. Having them around just makes me feel better about myself.
     
    yes, i am so hot.

    My ego is boosted (if thats possible i mean it's so inflated) when people compliment me and stuff, depending on the person more or less so but either way you get the picture. Oh and when I'm right, which is all the time, when I look nice which is also all the time are all also factors which attribute to causing my ego to boost.
     
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    high grades. praises. applauses. Things like that can easily make my self-esteem go waaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy up.
     
    Depends how well things are generally going in my life, rather than anything precise.

    @Harlequin; that happened with me, and it worked.
     
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