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    In light of certain events in my life, I have to ask something: Have you ever been cheated on in a relationship? If so, how did you react to it?
    Lord forbid me actually asking this, but have you ever been a cheater yourself?
     
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    No, I haven't. But then again I haven't been in many relationships, so it might happen in the future. I'd like to think I would have the strength to break it off if that happened, but no one can say for sure until they're in that situation, haha.
     
    Yep, I have.
    My reaction was... interesting to say the least; I wasn't a happy person and broke up with them pretty much instantly.​
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    Not really.

    I was serious with a girl several years ago, but we broke up before anything like that could happen. I was too busy drowning out the incomprehensible drivel about country music, Twilight, and Republican viewpoints she kept spewing out. She also said I played too many video games. At that point I decided she was trying to control my life and broke it off with her. She also cried too much about some nonsense about not getting a lead role in plays or something. I don't know, point is it was annoying as hell to get her to stop.

    Long story short: no, haven't really been cheated on or felt all that tempted to yet.
     
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    I've "cheated" in the sense that I've flirted with people while I was still, technically, dating someone, but that was a relationship that was really already over and I just didn't have the nerve to go out and say it at the time.

    No one's cheated on me as far as I know. I would be upset, but I'm a forgiving person so if they were sorry and still wanted to be with me that would be okay by me. People make mistakes, you know? Not gonna hold that over someone's head or let it destroy something that could still work.
     
    I've thankfully never been cheated on (I've only had 1 boyfriend before and he was amazing.) Infidelity is.. the worst of the worst to me. I rather them tell me that they murdered someone, to be honest. No matter how close to the person I am, if they cheat it would be painful and over. :/ I wouldn't be able to trust again after that.

    No, I would never cheat on someone else for the same reasons.
     
    To the extent of my knowledge, I have never been cheated on. I have never been a cheater, however I have been the one with whom someone cheated. I didn't feel much guilt for that.
     
    Hmm what counts as cheating? I would say flirting, for the most part, is absolutely harmless as long as the person in the relationship understands where the boundaries lie and don't tempt themselves to go over it.

    Kissing, sometimes, I could forgive for as well. Depending on circumstances.

    Anything more and they'd be curbed as quickly as possible :P as far as I know I've never been cheated on, or cheated with someone else, and hopefully it won't be something that happens. Although in all honesty I bet most of us who say we haven't been cheated on actually were, just not aware of it ><.
     
    I have been cheated on once before by my ex and honestly it hurt a lot. Took me 2 years to trust someone again.

    I have never cheated on anyone myself and I never would as I know what it feels like.

    Me and my fiancee are both flirty people but we both know where the boundarys lie and neither one of us over step that.
     
    No. Infidelity is absolutely wrong. If I were to be cheated on that's it, we're done. If you cheat on a person it means you dont respect them or the relationship.
     
    I've never cheated on anybody before or been cheated on - I've never been in a relationship long enough for either to happen haha.

    I do know that I would never cheat though. I'm generally a flirty person which may make that hard to believe and has caused some suspicion on me in the past, but I would never cross the line. I'm just not like that.
     
    I have never cheated on anyone I've been in a relationship with, nor have I been cheated on. I honestly think infidelity in a relationship is very low. While it is forgivable for some, it's not forgivable for me. I would never do it to anyone I was with, and I expect the same.
     
    No, I've never been cheated on. That's the sort of thing that would cause me to immediately drop a person from my life. There are no excuses for it. Ever.
     
    First off ask yourself this: how wise is it to ask for relationship advice on a Pokemon forum?
     
    I've never been in a situation resembling anything near being cheated on or cheating, myself. I imagine if I were cheated on, it wouldn't be the actual act that would tear me up (though it would obviously hurt) so much as the emotional damage that all the lying and sneaking around would do to the relationship. For me, that'd be a lot harder to forgive than the act itself, if that makes any sense...
     
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