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Oversharing

Sirfetch’d

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    Do you tend to overshare when talking to someone?
     
    I undershare if anything, aha, even to good friends. Not intentional or anything, I am just used to being more closed off and don't want to annoy people with talking too much or airing my problems. @_@

    More or less me. Sometimes there might be times I want to say something to someone, but then I'm like, "nah don't want to bother them" and such.
     
    For most of my life I kept everything to myself, even keeping most things from my family. Then eventually I went through a period where I started sharing too much, especially when it came to venting online but I think I've reigned it in a lot now. I still don't have much of a filter though so if you ask me how I'm doing or how something went then I'm probably going to tell you straight.
     
    Qualifier at the National Championship of Public Oversharing - Bodily Action Division for 25 years running, currently maintaining a five year unbroken winning streak after receiving tutelage from Grand Master Twitter for two years.
     
    I have specific places to do so. If it's with friends or small discord servers/channels I probably overshare, but if it's a little more public I won't. I make use if a discord server has a #vent channel frequently.
     
    I tend to hide a lot of my personal issues or problems for as long as possible, until I feel like I can't keep it to myself any longer and then proceed to tell someone such as a close friend. In regard to what I tell my friends - I think I do tend to overshare to a fault, when I do finally open up. When I became conscious of how much I was opening up, I retreated and tried to hide even more under a guise of having it together because I didn't want to continue projecting my problems onto other people. But that in a way has perpetuated this cycle of bottling emotions, telling someone when it becomes too much etc. which I know is unhealthy. I think for the most part though I am very private with who I talk to about personal issues, and even when opening up, I definitely do try to hold myself back.
     
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