Preferred Pronouns

[Cloufy]

He, She, they etc.

Do you guys have pronouns that you preferred to be called?

It can kinda get a bit confusing being online and all (not to mention sometimes you can't tell if a person is a guy or a girl on the internet), but I sometimes feel bad and awkward when I call someone "he" when they prefer to be called "she" or "they".

 

[killer-curry]

My pronounce is , " that boy or that girl or that girl who has a beautiful voice"

well, just put some description with he or she.

 

[pkmin3033]

Nope. I don't mind if people use he, she, they, or whatever else to refer to me; I don't really identify with either sex or any particular ideology or whatever else people use to explain their pronoun preferences. I just let people pick what is most comfortable for them on an individual basis and let them get on with it...it's all the same to me.

 

[Sirfetch’d]

I'm cool with being called he or him

 

[Corrin]

Any pronouns

 

[Auticorn]

I prefer she/her/etc for pronouns because I'm a girl. :3

 

[L'Belle]

You can call me a he, not a she like some people say

 

[esperance]

I don't really care. Call me whatever you want.

 

[Spiff]

dude/bro/homie will do just fine

 

[Sylphiel]

I'm at the point where, while "she" is the right one to use, I don't care too much which one you actually use. I could be called "he" or anything else (and have been called "he" plenty of times online) and I wouldn't care enough to correct anybody over it.

 

[Her]

decepticon/she/her

 

[Esper]

your highness / your majesty / your excellency

But seriously, I don't really care what other people use with me. I've not made it easy for people in the past, but I'm comfortable enough with who I am that I can shrug it off. I try to use "they" or nothing with other people though so I'd probably prefer "they" because it's all-inclusive.

 

[Rosehip]

I don't really care what other people use with me. I've not made it easy for people in the past, but I'm comfortable enough with who I am that I can shrug it off. I try to use "they" or nothing with other people though so I'd probably prefer "they" because it's all-inclusive.

That's just about how I feel about the whole pronoun thing. It's not like I show my gender openly on here, and it's not out of shyness, fear or anything like that. It's out of my lack of care for whatever you call me. I don't see a point in having to go through the trouble of stressing that I am the opposite or something completely different to what somebody else has claimed I am on the internet, as we can't really see each other anyway. Mistakes are bound to happen, anyway. As for other people, I also say "they", as it doesn't really leave anybody out.

He, she, it, swamp monster, as long as you have some method of addressing me, I have no problems at all.

 

[Palamon]

They/them or he/him. I prefer they, but he is cool with me.

Please don't use it on me. Makes me uncomfortable.

 

[noa]

My gender on here is female but I'm still rather fluid (You could say I'm "primarily" female) so I am okay with being called he, she or they. I'm pretty cool with anything unless you call me "it", then there's a problem.

 

[Lize]

I was thinking of making a somewhat bigger post about pronouns ideology and stuff but most things have already been said and I suppose talking about pronoun ideology is something I generally avoid

She/her for me.

I'll address others with they/them as long as I'm unsure on how they identify as.

 

[Somewhere_]

Some people think I'm a girl, but my preferred pronoun is "he/him."

Irl, maybe its because of the hair, but online, idk why. (I am biologically male)

 

[Reunilu]

She/her, but honestly I don't care, just not "it". I'm not exactly secretive about my gender, but I don't give much thought about my gender either. Might as well not make a huge deal about it.

 

[Giggleswee]

I prefer she/her and like somewhat like Reunilu said, I'm not really secretive about what I am and am kinda open about it.

 

[Bobbylicious]

My sex and gender are both male, but I have a feminine face and am often mistaken for a girl, and will sometimes be referred to as a female, which doesn't bother me - I only really get annoyed when I'm with other people and they here and then giggle because I got called a girl, because I don't care, or when the person who called me a feminine pronoun realizes they were wrong and then corrects themselves, like it just makes the whole situation awkward to me.

That said, I really don't like being called by male pronouns. Like, I don't care either way if you use male pronouns, but I do like the way gender neutral pronouns sound - so I guess you could say I prefer being called by gender neutral pronouns, or just simply by my name, but I'm not overly bothered at all. I still identify as male (to an extent anyway), so go ahead and use whatever male or neutral pronouns you feel like.

The only thing I really don't like being called is "dude", and I never have. Even though in like recent years it's been given more a universal term rather than male orientated, but I still feel uncomfortable when people call me a "dude", and to an extend it just doesn't feel right when I hear others refer to other people as a dude. I don't know I'm weird. I did have this issue with the word "mate" when I was like 14/15, but I grew out of that, so maybe I'll become more accepting of the word dude one day.


EDIT: Oh, and reading through the thread, never call me or anyone else by the term it. That's just plain rude and dehumanizing.