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sexually numb

Sexual topics don't bother me (unless they are horrendously graphic and/or shallow), but they don't interest me either. I'm demisexual, so the only person I am interested in sexually is my boyfriend. I actually have trouble understanding why or how people have sex with strangers often, as it's something I can't imagine doing. If that is your thing though, just make sure you stay safe! :)
 
I rarely discuss them. I'm largely not comfortable talking about sexual topics for the most part with the exception of roughly three people (two of which being doctors...)
 
I can discuss, but participation will be... uncomfortable. I have absolutely no idea how to do it, only that I know how but simply can't.
 
Depends on who I'm discussing it with. I never had a proper discussion about sex with my parents which gave me some kind of wrong ideas and habits. At this age, touching the topic of sex with my mom is awkward but otherwise, I'm pretty easygoing about it.
 
I talk about sex all of the time and make sexual jokes daily with my friends haha. I really only find it uncomfortable around my parents and I don't think I will ever be able to discuss anything about sex with or around them.
 
Sammi said:
I am about as asexual as they come. I feel awkward even talking about it, especially since I'm still a virgin (what a surprise /s). I don't know what I'm doing, and I don't want to know about other people's sex lives if I can help it. Not curious about it at all. I can be that way about romance, too -- I haven't been in love before so I don't get it.

Like recently, my sister was gushing about this cute boy she's seeing and my reaction was basically just to smile and nod. That's all I can contribute. :/

Not planning on having kids, but if I did, I'd let their other parent deal with it. Unless it were just me, then that'd be scary, haha.

Take a look at this 24 year old loser over here... :p
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I will not say I'm asexual. I'm straight. I see no problem in talking about sex. Sex is a beautiful thing, and I can talk about it freely with anybody. But I refuse to have sex until I'm married. But the thing is I won't get married until I'm interested in someone. I'm not interested in dating or marriage right now and some people tell me its not normal that I'm so interested in pokemon, and someone my age (20) should be out looking for a woman. In all honesty I'm not interested in to that right now. If I had a kid they would know what sex was by 5. So I would let my child know what sex is and let them know the meaning of sex.

To me sex is supposed to be the uniting of two souls :P
 
PervertedPikachu said:
^Well, that's certainly an old fashioned opinion. You can do whatever you want, and your friends pressuring you about liking Pokemon over women isn't very nice but for most people on the 21st century sexual activity does NOT correlate to an interest in lifelong partners. With your kids, will you educate them strictly by your own beliefs or let them make their own decisions?

As for myself, well, the name speaks for itself, right? ;) In real life I don't really have anyone to talk sex with, but overhearing snippets of others sexual conversations is incredibly thrilling. It can be a little gross how boys in my school only want to use women, they speak about them like prizes, not people :/

On the internet it's very enjoyable to talk about sex, it turns me on. I'm definitely not sexually numb, my passion runs red hot. Group conversations are awesome, I don't mind if you're uncomfortable talking about such things, but it sucks that chats like that between consenting individuals can be broken up by mods. Oh well, this is a Pokemon site, there are other places to go for R rated chats. With regards to those i'm fine with most things, except perhaps extreme violence, rape, scat, gore etc. I'd talk about sexual stuff with complete strangers, but as for sexual roleplay not if you're a guy, or come onto me in a creepy way that makes me think you're an online predator, or just using me. Actual sex should be mutual enjoyment :)

My parents didn't tell me much about sex, and it was very weird when my mother would make sexual jokes or comments. I learnt all I needed to know from just listening to others, sex ed and porn, thank you very much. Whilst I would tell my kids a little about good sexual practices (no rape, use condoms, that's how it's done etc.) I don't think children are stupid and oblivious, our society instills in them from a very young age that their is some special properties of our private parts and that males and females do something together when they love each other.

I think sex ed is a better alternative to porn for finding out the specifics, given my own personal experience, which not everyone here wants to hear, so I'll refrain.

P.S I'm a virgin, ladies feel free to change that status, i'm 18 and desperate :3
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Porn is the worst way to learn anything. I can't take it seriously I usually find it too funny. The best way to learn in that situation is by doing. It's less fake and objectifying, porn objectifies both genders.
 
I don't think that I actually feel in any way "uncomfortable" about it, I might be young but I am not immature as most people are, maybe if everyone learns to be mature very once in awhile then maybe we can actually come to a discussion where somebody can mention the words "Penis" and "Vagina" without everyone bursting out in laughter.
 
Fernbutter said:
I don't think that I actually feel in any way "uncomfortable" about it, I might be young but I am not immature as most people are, maybe if everyone learns to be mature very once in awhile then maybe we can actually come to a discussion where somebody can mention the words "Penis" and "Vagina" without everyone bursting out in laughter.
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let's be real man those words are quite humorous phonetically. even if they didn't mean anything close to what they actually mean I would probably still giggle if I heard them said. it's like 'moist.'
 
Sex topics don't bother me, unless it becomes very detailed and includes things typical people would consider vile. I also don't like rape culture and how demeaning women and over-sexualizing things has become popular / acceptable. It bothers me more to see a picture of a woman chained with men looking on than it does to discuss reproduction, what you did last night, etc.

I'll avoid it if I can, and I try to keep my own life private.
 
I'm the guy who turns red as an apple and walks out the room when the topic comes up. Why the heck do I post in threads about it though?
 
I'm fairly asexual, but I will take part in topics about sex and share opinions. It doesn't gross me out, and like most topics it can have it's interesting pieces to it.

Now, if people start getting into huge detail, or get graphic about it, I'd probably be uncomfortable, or at least be disinterested and want to go do something else. Probably the latter, since that's happened before. xD
 
This is one of those few topics I like hearing other people over the sound of my own voice for sure. Hearing about other people's sexual exploits is as damn exciting as it gets; however, I don't like to offer up anything about myself. I keep the focus all on them! Oh, and I try to ask as many questions to test how much information I can get from them, as subtly as possible.
 
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