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Trustworthy? You dont even know the meaning..

Ranx

Baadshah :P
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    Hello guys and galz :)

    how many of you think that you are really trustworthy? Do you trust people fast ? Or you dont trust anyone ? How much can you trust a person ..? Your trust has ever been broken ?

    I believe I am really trustworthy and I wont ever never share ones secrets to the other ... hmm I dont trust people fast but when i do i even give my fb pass :p
    my trust was broken many times 3 -4 years ago .. I hate people who say trust me >. <
    from then I really dont get who to trust or not so I dont trust anyone .. ( as you can see my avatar ) xD
     
    I trust people until I have a reason not to trust them. And even after I have a reason not to trust them, I'll often give them another chance and a benefit of the doubt if something were to arise after that point that questioned my trust. I'm also way too forgiving, I think. It's all very strange, because I don't think humans as a whole are very trustworthy. But when it comes to a single person, things are different.
     
    I definitely don't trust people fast, and tend to keep my distance until then. However, once a person has my trust...they're pretty much keeping it until something drastic happens (and even then, it would have to be really bad for them to lose it...). And while I'm sure I've had it broken before, I just can't think of a situation where it happened where I even care about it anymore. :(

    As for me, I like to think I'm trustworthy. I'm not in the habit of telling others' secrets to people - since I know I don't want it happening to me, so why would I do it to others?
     
    I tend to operate on a model of "Default Trust". Basically everyone starts at 0, which entails a few basic assumption based trusts based on societal rules and they work up from there.

    It's not difficult to gain trust, but it is difficult to regain any trust once you've lost it.
     
    I at least try my best to be trustworthy to others, though at times I can see where things get a little clumsy.

    Usually though, one must earn my trust after a certain period of time. And if they earn my trust, it's usually kept until I see them or hear about them mess up on something, which usually does not resolve well in the end.
     
    I have a habit of judging people, and if I think they are the kind of people that I could get along with, I end up putting a rather large amount of trust on them. And believe it or not, I've never had my trust broken. I guess it's either the fact that I'm too trusting, or that I'm an open book. -shrug-
     
    I am a very carefree person and will happily trust anyone which is a bit foolish of me but who ever says otherwise can shut up and go judge other people. but with me on the other hand I hold onto every scrap of information people tell me and if they tell me something that they seriously don't want to be spoiled than I keep it. I still haven't told a soul about my friends cancer except the people that know. Though I try and barter my secrets off to people like... Hey if you buy me lunch I'll tell you all the goss.
     
    I believe that I'm a trustworthy person. Even if I don't like you, if you tell me something I am more than likely to keep it a secret because it's your business that you trusted me to keep and I'll honor it. I actually have the problem of trusting too many people and it's bitten me in the ass so many times.
     
    People tend to trust me, and I normally trust other people, if they screw me over obviously, I don't trust them anymore. I'm a pretty honest guy. Except to my parents, but that's to e expected xD
     
    I feel like I'm a trustworthy person.

    As for trusting others, I used to be more trustworthy but got burned doing so, so now I'm being more careful who I trust.
     
    Am I trustworthy? I like to think so. I've kept every secret anyone has ever told me. I would never betray anyone.

    Do I trust people fast? Not usually, no. I don't tend to trust anyone. Occasionally I meet someone, though, and I trust them pretty much straight away (this has happened twice), and I don't know why, as I barely speak to them. At the moment, I trust my best friend, and these two people who I barely speak to, and that's it. The thing is, I trust my best friend, and I tell him secrets and all my problems.

    Like I said, I don't know why I trust those two other people, and I don't know what I trust them with, I just know I trust them.


    Has my trust ever been broken? Uh, yeah. I grew up everyone hating me or not wanting me around, so that plus Autism has led to major trust issues. A few years back I met a guy, and we began to chat online (we lived 2000 Ks apart), soon we became besties, and I trusted him completely.

    A year ago a lot of stuff happened, to make the story short he blocked half my family online and I got grumpy, probably overreacted, and did things just to hurt him. He also thought he knew how my mind worked, even though he obviously didn't. But yeah, he broke my trust in those few weeks. It's taken me a long time to even start trust people again, which is why I'm so grateful to my bestie, because he's helping me with my trust issues... but I'll never trust anyone quickly. It hurts too much to have your trust broken.
     
    I can be too trusting at times, especially towards strangers, which is odd and dangerous XD Try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but once someone abuses my trust it's hard to gain it back despite my forgiving nature. I try not to keep record of people's lies; just a natural conscious thing for me to do \:
     
    I'm probably one of the most trustworthiest people you will ever meet. But, due to some things that have happened, like betrayals and other things, I find it too difficult to trust people now. Sorry everyone, but that's just the way I am.
     
    I trust people really quickly, and in return people trust me, too, but that's not really wise haha. I'm really talkative and I'm probably going to end up telling your secret to everyone I know, especially if it's a baaaaad secret wink wink.
     
    I don't know if I consider myself trustworthy, at least not in real life. I get too up in other people's hair, I forget to do things often, and sometimes i'm just slow.

    But as for me, I feel trusting fairly easily, just because of how appreciative I get to people that are nice to me.
     
    I'm pretty trustworthy, but it's pretty tough to earn my trust nowadays since I've been backstabbed a lot >.< but i try to give others the benefit of the doubt
     
    I'm kinda naïve but really I just don't doubt people because frankly I don't care and I know that sometimes not telling the entire truth is the best

    when it comes to being trustworthy...I wouldn't really share any big secrets with me because I have a problem realizing the "borders" of what I can do (in this case, not tell the secret to anyone else)
     
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