thedestinedblade
Radiant Cool Boy
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Haha, I don't have anyone in particular in mind. Despite have only 2 people on my buddy list I'm quite satisfied. :laugh:
There's quite a few people I want to become friends with. Although, problem is that I can't start/make a conversation for my life. I get really shy and hardly say anything, mostly because I don't wanna say something stupid and make a fool of myself. And once it gets quiet, I'm done; I have no idea how to start the conversation going again, because I don't think of anything to talk about, and that person leaves after a while. =/ Also because I take things too far and probably will annoy them eventually by trying hopelessly to start a conversation with constant remarks about the weather and what color the wallpaper is.
You guys just to have to be a bit more casual and relaxed. about things. There are various ways of working around your shyness or your inability to maintain lengthy conversations with people you don't know.This is exactly the problem I have, to a 'T'.
I get that a lot lol ^^ I find a random joke can do well if you don't wanna leave xPFirst of all, keep conversations short with people you don't know very well. If you fully run out of things to say, just say you have to go run some errands for a while. That way, it looks like you've ended the conversation, rather than it just dying because you have nothing left to add.
This is really good advice, thanks! :3You guys just to have to be a bit more casual and relaxed. about things. There are various ways of working around your shyness or your inability to maintain lengthy conversations with people you don't know.
First of all, keep conversations short with people you don't know very well. If you fully run out of things to say, just say you have to go run some errands for a while. That way, it looks like you've ended the conversation, rather than it just dying because you have nothing left to add.
Secondly, for people you don't know, use PMs or VMs. They're like snail mail compared to IMs, so you don't have to think on your feet as much. You can take as much time as you need to think of what you want to say. And it'll help you find out what type of personality the other person has. So you know how to interact with them in the future.
Thirdly, group chats. If you can get a group chat going with a couple of people, the onus is less on you to instigate new topics. Plus, you get to know more than one person at a time, and they are generally more fun.
Fourthly, don't forget that you are on a forum so, by default, the majority of people here are also just looking for new friends and people to talk to. And most people are nice and friendly enough for you to not have to feel pressured over something that is supposed to be fun.
EDIT: Should probably answer the question. I know barely any of the new active members, but I was more than happy with the friends I used to have from here. So I would happily be friends with them again.
lolol. Nica is female.Nica, cause he seems like a cool person.