you can tell me anything

[Nathan]

how good are you at opening up to people? would you consider it easy to vent out about your problems to someone? how close do you have to be with someone to consider telling them about your problems?

 

[tranceking26]

I tend to be honest about myself straight away, I only hide some things from people.

 

[gimmepie]

I open up a little, but really just enough to scratch the surface of what I'm feeling generally. I'm even worse offline.

That being said, the closer we are the more open I'll be usually.

 

[Swithdas]

I don't really open up to anyone, really. I find it a lot easier to deal and work out my problems when no one else knows about them. That being said I also don't really let my problems work their way out into the open, or have them change the way I act or feel. That being said if you're family or a significant other well there will be times I open up. I also think this aides in my ability to be a great listener but that's another thing.

 

[Cay]

i open up to anyone really. ive always been good at voicing my feelings to people. i usually dont have anything to hide. u can ask me pretty much anything and i feel pretty comfortable about venting to people too. i'm an open book normally

 

[Senjougahara]

I have a problem with opening up to people. It's not that I don't want to, I just really don't know how. It's strange, but by now I've gotten used to it and so has everyone else, I believe.

 

[moon]

i open up to anyone really. ive always been good at voicing my feelings to people. i usually dont have anything to hide. u can ask me pretty much anything and i feel pretty comfortable about venting to people too. i'm an open book normally

I used to be the same, and saw that as a problem.

Nowadays I've heard that I'm not as much of an open book anymore, but idk. I still trust and vent too quickly and easily sometimes.

 

[Alex]

I try to be fairly open with everyone. With some it's harder than others but generally I am more comfortable with others if I open up and let them prove to me that they aren't judgemental. I also use humour to open up to people and if they laugh then I instantly feel better about talking to them.

As for like really personal stuff I have a few select friends who I know I can talk to about things to get my head back on straight.

 

[Aisu]

I'm really closed-off. Used to be on purpose, but now it's out of habit and it's physically uncomfortable for me to share basic details about myself.

 

[Her]

i don't have any problem talking about how i'm feeling or anything to do with me, i place my concern in how the other person is feeling. i mean, there are a couple of things i am dealing with that subvert this statement, but i think everyone has something that they refuse to talk about with other people. otherwise, i pride myself on being able to be totally honest and open about my thoughts. it's not really something i even think about. all my concern goes towards the other person.

 

[Esper]

Like, I don't open up at all to anyone. I'm afraid to, even though I know that's not a healthy approach. I've always been really private and even when I seem to open up I'm still holding a lot back.

 

[MadHatter62]

Well, no actually I can't tell you anything. You didn't say "Simon says".

 

[HamtaroTumin]

I use stock thought being open to people is great for honesty but now, I learned, I only say thing after thinking what I am talking and thinking what I'll happen after I say this...

i open up to anyone really. ive always been good at voicing my feelings to people. i usually dont have anything to hide. u can ask me pretty much anything and i feel pretty comfortable about venting to people too. i'm an open book normally

Is it good? Telling everything, like I am asking to someone like you "what do you think about me?" and if your really think bad about me you leak it openly....it is not good

 

[Overlord Drakow]

I keep it pretty locked up but it depends on my mood.

 

[Auticorn]

It really depends on the person. I have to be able to trust them, but I am pretty open most of the time.

 

[AkameTheBulbasaur]

It's only been relatively recently that I've been open with anybody at all. I had a less than stellar past, which I don't usually reveal to people because I don't want to have a depressing conversation too often unless I have to.

Whether or not I'm an open book depends on who you are. If you're somebody I like, then you'll know at least some of my "tragic backstory". (It's kind of long so it usually doesn't come out all at once because

A. That would take forever
and
B. I don't feel like bringing it all back up at once)

But if I don't trust you then you either know nothing, or you know some lie I made up on the spot to get you to shut up.

And of course, on the internet I don't say more than I have to either. You never know who's listening to you.

 

[Nick]

I vent about all of my problems and whatever baggage I have, someone out there knows it all and there are a vast group of people who, if they cared that much and had the time, could piece together all of it.