Relationships

[Bellsprout]

Are you in a relationship? Do you want to be in a relationship? How many relationships have you been in? What were they like? Share anything else!!

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As for myself no and NO. A strong second no because I'm kind of tired of being tied to someone else. Yeah it's cute and great and sweet, but honestly I've lost the desire for it. At least for now anyway. I go out and party with my friends regularly and I don't want to deal with a boyfriend on the side. I am 20 and young and just want to have fun idc how dumb I sound yay!!!

I've been in two. During my first relationship I was the most miserable I have ever been. Not blaming that entirely on the relationship because there were a few things at that point in my life that made me hate everything lol. It was just very negative. Looking back it taught me a lot so I don't regret it, but I do feel like it was a huge waste of time.

My second one was a blast and super positive, but I just lost my feelings over time. Which idk, it made me feel really bad because he never did anything wrong, but I didn't want to continue the relationship since I saw him as only a friend. (and also maybe because I wanted to be single again tehehe)

 

[Sydian]

I'm in a relationship and honestly, I've never been happier. We're weird together and it's perfect.

 

[TY]

Same as Jak, couldn't be happier with my girlfriend atm and we're both weird as hell :P

Though I had one before, but I'd rather not talk about it as... it is not pleasant to talk about relationships that end tbh.

 

[Poki]

1. No.
2. No one to be with.
3. None.

Wanna know more about my exciting love life? <3

 

[Entermaid]

Are you in a relationship?
No.

Do you want to be in a relationship?
Uh, I am still waiting to move next fall and settle in before I really think about dating.
I do want to get married and have (adopt) kids, but the kid-part won't be for at least 5-6 years. I mean, I think I should have a decent job and, you know, be done with school!

Though, who knows if I will be able to get head start on that, and find someone while in grad school.

How many "relationships" have you been in? What were they like?
1

Though, young "love" is more often than not a non-real relationship even if it lasted over a year. So, in that respect, zero.

 

[Kanzler]

no and i think so. just one, which wasn't much.

I think I'm a person who, when it comes down to it, holds back. But I should really just let it go and do what I want to do.

I don't really think about it as "being in a relationship". I don't even like that word. It's so vague and non-descript.

 

[Yukari]

Are you in a relationship?
No
Do you want to be in a relationship?
No
How many "Relationships" Have you been in? What were they like?
I've been in one before. I wasn't really happy in it either.

Exciting romantic life eh? I mean, hell, they may one day make a Hollywood movie about it.

 

[Blastin'Tyruntz]

Are you in a relationship?
Nope.
Do you want to be in a relationship?
Yes, i am in constant need and obsession to be tied romantically with someone else, because as dark as i may seem, every time i find someone, i become extremely happy, and i really do want to be happy, so yes.
How many "Relationships" Have you been in? What were they like?
I've been in about 13 relationships, 10 of them long distance of some sort and 3 from here. I can only think about maybe 5-6 of them that i truly felt happiness, and in my most recent one, she thought "Long distance" means she can have sex in California while i sit here sad and alone in Israel. Didn't end well, i took like 2 days off here.

 

[Captain Gizmo]

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 years now, and I love her :3

It's amazing how weird I can be around her and how she can be weird around me also. We're so comfortable around each other, we're like best friends also. I always have a great time when I'm with her.

My past relationships taught me what I really wanted in a relationship and whatnot. Some of them were pretty pointless tho, lol.

 

[Honest]

I've been in one relationship, and truth be told, I really miss it. I do want to be in a relationship, but with her. It's really complicated why we broke it off, namely fear and paranoia. What's sad is that we really did like each other a lot. We still do, and in essence, nothing's changes except for the drop of the title and the obviously intimate bits. I'm holding on to the hope that she changes her mind cause, well, why the hell not. We both really like each other. Hopefully, when the time comes, we'll both be ready. And I'm aware that waiting is stupid, not if it hurts, but it doesn't. Why? Because I've realized there's no pressure for me to move on.

 

[Dreg]

Are you in a relationship?
No.

Do you want to be in a relationship?
Eventually, I've been so close with some girls, and then for some odd reason that I don't see them again. Can't understand why this is.

How many relationships have you been in?
None.

 

[Kyrul]

Are you in a relationship?
No.

Do you want to be in a relationship?
I ain't going out looking for one, but if something happens, I won't fight it.

How many relationships have you been in?
4.

What were they like?
First one was great, she was hot (By a 14 year old's standards), and had a great personality, we stayed together for 13 months, I don't really remember why we broke up.
Second and third were pretty much the same, we just ended up drifting apart at the end.
During my fourth one, I was dating that girl for about 21 months, I was even thinking about how to propose to her, I joined the Army at this time and left for basic training, while I was in training I got a Dear John letter from her. She even asked for all her pictures back. So my buddies gave me pictures of their girlfriends and told me to send them all back to her with a letter saying "Here you go, I forgot which one was you anyways". It took me awhile to get over that one lol.

 

[Morkula]

I'd love to be in a relationship, but I'm really picky about who I date and I'm not the type to go out on blind dates or anything, and I want to get to know someone before I date them. Most of the girls that I know and would be attracted to are already taken, or are close friends that I don't want to ruin our friendship if things didn't work out.

I've kind of come to terms with the fact that at 25 and never having been in a serious relationship that lasted beyond a couple of dates, and with no prospects for the foreseeable future, I'm destined to be a bachelor for life. Which depresses me at times, but it's reality.

 

[Razer302]

Are you in a relationship?

Yes, will be 8 months in a few days and its great, still enver know what future holds.

How many relationships?

I have had 3 I would consider serious relationships, the one previous to this one ended up in me having a child, but I learnt from my mistakes. One I am with now, even though she doesn't want kids herself does an amazing job with my kid. She always supports me when my ex is being awkward about things and trying to not let me see him. Honestly without her I doubt I would have gained access at all.

 

[Entermaid]

^ Well it sounds like you have made a comeback in this department. :)

I don't know if I could handle having to deal with an ex for the rest of my life :/

 

[Blastin'Tyruntz]

^ Well it sounds like you have made a comeback in this department. :)

I don't know if I could handle having to deal with an ex for the rest of my life :/

One of my exes moved to another school like a week after we broke up, i still don't know if that's because of me :\

 

[Sheep]

You make such good CCC topics! Fun to answer after a tiring day. :')

I've been in two relationships: one didn't even last a year from age 16-17 so way long ago. Feels like only two or three years ago but it's been around six now which is a shocker to think about. That was my first relationship so my naive self thought it'd last forever and we'd get married but.. that obviously didn't happen. He promised to stay with me but eventually lost interest and left after barely speaking to me for months. Not sure why I didn't end it first given that treatment. It was long distance - he was in Alberta, Canada and I was in New York City (though he did visit for a week one summer).

Been with my current boyfriend for two and a half years now, three in June. He's very sweet and has continued to stay loyal so I am hoping this one lasts as I've been quite happy.

 

[Kanzler]

You make such good CCC topics! Fun to answer after a tiring day. :')

I've been in two relationships: one didn't even last a year from age 16-17 so way long ago. Feels like only two or three years ago but it's been around six now which is a shocker to think about. That was my first relationship so my naive self thought it'd last forever and we'd get married but.. that obviously didn't happen. He promised to stay with me but eventually lost interest and left after barely speaking to me for months. Not sure why I didn't end it first given that treatment. It was long distance - he was in Alberta, Canada and I was in New York City (though he did visit for a week one summer).

Been with my current boyfriend for two and a half years now, three in June. He's very sweet and has continued to stay loyal so I am hoping this one lasts as I've been quite happy.

What was that like, meeting in person? Were you familiar with his mannerisms/body language/fashion/things like that through Skype or something? And how'd you get to make the arrangment? Alberta and NYC are pretty far away :S PM me if it's too personal :P

 

[Sheep]

What was that like, meeting in person? Were you familiar with his mannerisms/body language/fashion/things like that through Skype or something? And how'd you get to make the arrangment? Alberta and NYC are pretty far away :S PM me if it's too personal :P

It was so, so different than what I imagined. We'd webcammed a few times but that was totally different from meeting in person. He was overall a lot different from my expectations which made me realize, albeit only by the time we broke up, that we probably weren't the best fit for each other either way (but I tried to hold that thought back since I figured it was just first time meet worries).

He was a fairly nice guy but very monotone despite us having fairly similar interests. His parents were nice enough to let him take a trip here even though we were only dating for four or so months by the time he brought it up! Mine would never have approved, especially not at that age. xD;;

 

[Zorogami]

I am currently in a relationship, as i have been for the last 4 years (: Things are pretty complicated now, since im living in Spain and she is still in Germany, but we do make it work somehow. I have had a crush on her for around two years before we got together, and when it finally happened i thought i was dreaming, really xD We had been best friends for the longest are, and we still are. There is no person i feel more comfortable with, and no one that understands me so well.

Before that, i was in 3 other relationships, but only 1 of those could be considered as "half-serious", so to me they dont really count.