are gŭyŠ easier to be friend with?

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    guys are very easy to be friends with and get along with. i also agree they create way less drama than girls do. i just don't get why girls start so much drama. it's a waste of everybody's time. but on the other hand, some boys can be really big jerks as well. so i like having guys and girls as friends. plus you can be a lot closer and open with girls because they go through most of the same stuff as we do. so i think both guys and girls are good friends!
     
    Not exactly. IMO, it's easier to be friends with those of the same gender as you because you may share common interests with that person (like boys with sports). However, in some cases, you might be want to be friends with those of the opposite gender because not only due to interests, but due to certain actions that person does.

    (this may be flawed in some way, but I wasn't sure on how to convey it)
     
    It honestly depends on who you are. I heard some guys find it easier to make friends, and vice versa. I honestly don't know what gender I make friends with easier. It really just depends on what they like, or how we end up meeting eachother in the first place. I have plenty of female friends, but I have several guy friends as well.

    But yeah. It depends on the person.
     
    I guess I make close friends easier with other girls, but I can easily make many shallow friends in guys. Not too many of them I keep for long though. Maybe I should try to improve that part!

    But I agree about the drama part. In my last class, we were about three or four times as many girls as boys, and the class was split up and drama-ish. But in the class I'm taking now, we're 50/50. It's much more fun, because now it's not such a big deal if you hang out with the boys once in a while. Often, even.

    Like Pazuru said though, it depends on the person.
     
    The boys I tend to hang around with both online and in real life can be pretty sympathetic, whilst throughout the last couple of years I had to deal with girls...both online and offline who are pretty fussy and catty. I don't like a lot of female tendencies, so I pretty much stick by the boys more than the girls.
     
    Seeing as I am a guy, yeah, I do have more guy friends, but I don't think they are easier to befriend. I tend to befriend any person, a guy or a girl, if they interest me in a way, and it's not always guys who have the same interests as mine. I actually 'search' for girls who share the same interests as me, since I like to hang out with girls, too.
     
    I do not like girls. I have no problem being a feminine guy, femininity is fine, but there's something about girls I will never like nor understand. Girls are just...not what I like being friends with most of the time. It's rare I ever have a girl that I'm close with. Too many have gone behind my back. I've had people call me sexist, but really, that's not what it is. I just prefer the company of males. Nothing wrong with that. They are easier to get along with and befriend than girls, though. That's just my take on it.
     
    Some guys might be easier to get along with, but in my personal and subjective experience girls have no more drama than guys and have been better and longer-lasting friends. Besides, when you talk about "getting along" with people that sounds more like interacting with people and not having conflict rather than being close and open with someone. I feel like there's an important distinction between those ideas.
     
    Both genders are equally useless.
    I've found that I make stronger friendships with girls, but those are also the friendships that can rapidly fall apart due to pettiness. Guys tend to be more laid back so are easier to "get along" with; as Scarf said, avoiding conflict and being able to interact with them, rather than actually getting a strong close friendship, because that's impossible.
     
    I'd say I'm good friends with guys and girls but it really depends on what they're like. In high school, I had three girls who were close friends, while in college I feel I'm closer to my male friends.
     
    Uuuuuggh.... no. I generally encounter issues making friends with boys at some point down the road.
     
    As a freshman in College I'm finding that at this stage, each gender is more open than usual, just looking to grab any friends they can, however in my younger years..I've always found that girls do make friends with guys a lot easier because well, lets face it, a lot of guys are often looking for something else. Sad but true.

    Personally, it isn't all about gender when it comes to close and true friends, it's about the qualities of that person.
     
    I used to see a difference back in middle school when a few girls I knew were annoying and carried some drama with them. Since then I haven't noticed much of a difference between my female and male friends. I mean the last time I was in any "drama" was 6th grade and it's been about five years since then. I don't know, I guess I don't understand anyone who carries drama past the age of 14. Then again I'm pretty laid back and I seldom care about stupid issues between other people.

    I guess me being a girl and saying that shows not everyone fits the standard of what gender they are.
     
    Mmmm, that's hard to say.
    It's great having sports and video games in common with guys, but they tend to avoid me and my hot pink skinny jeans. Yes, a majority of my friends are girls, because they're way easier to talk to. I'm only in High School, so I guess I couldn't say very much since I've known practically all of my close friends since 6th grade.
     
    Signomi said:
    I don't like a lot of female tendencies, so I pretty much stick by the boys more than the girls.
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    This is basically how I roll, though I'm definitely not without female friends. Also you can refer to any of my posts in other gender-related threads, 'cause I always bring up that yes, I find men easier to get along with since they're less likely to overcomplicate things or stir up drama. Also, in certain situations, other ladies sometimes make me feel a bit threatened somehow, like in an animal rivalry sense.

    I've got to agree with Ayselipera, though. I see the differences kind of fading out as we age, and more ladies are sensible and drama-free now than were back when I was a kid. But then again that may just be 'cause I'm out in the world now being around countless more people from countless more places, which was far from true in middle school, where the only people I knew of were my 80 or so peers in my private school.
     
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    I find it's easier for me to get along with girls. Guys get very territorial and competitive and it can sometimes be really annoying and hard for me to get along well with boys. I tend to click easier with girls.
     
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