I've for sure written this story before but I'll post it again.
I'm a recovered arachnophobe. My phobia was so crippling and so debilitating that it kept me from doing things I wanted to do. I couldn't walk between two vertical objects for fear of spider webs. I couldn't walk through doorways a spider might have been near, in between cars, around light poles, or narrow decks, anything of that sort. I'd get panic attacks about driving because "what if there's a spider in the car??". I would have my husband pull the car out of the driveway before I felt safe stepping between it and a tree that was about five feet away. I would stand paralyzed with horror at any spider or bug I found because the only thing worse than a bug you can see is a bug you know is there but can't see. I couldn't see certain movies, couldn't do things like go camping or hiking,... it really ruled my life for many, many years. And that's not even mentioning the idea of actually having one on me or god forbid being bitten by one.
Then I tried exposure therapy. It started with education, I learned everything I could about spiders and other creepy bugs. Slowly, my fear transformed into a cautious fascination. I learned the role they play in nature, I learned their behaviors, and slowly began to appreciate the little dudes for what they contribute to the environment. Understanding was my greatest tool for seeing past what was initially a very spooky exterior.
Now? I'm the former owner of a Zebra Jumping spider (rip Brad, he was best boy)! I developed a true passion and love for bugs, especially true spiders and tarantulas! Every time I look at their little faces I can't help but to d'aww and melt a little inside! They're such complex and caring creatures when you really study them and some of the most gorgeous specimens in the animal kingdom to boot! I love those precious guys and I hope everyone who has an intense fear can someday overcome it so they too can realize how important spiders are and what good friends they can be! (´▽`ʃƪ)♡