I care a lot about my friends.

No, they don't. I would give my life to any of them. They most probably would not.
 
My friends must care an awful lot to put up with me.

At least, it feels like "putting up with." I'm constantly told I shouldn't be so hard on myself -- but I'm not dumb. I know having PTSD limits a LOT of what they can say/do/etc around me.
Granted, a lot of it is basic respect and such things, I've still lost quite a few friends who felt they were "walking on eggshells" or "not able to be themselves around me."
I get that. And I don't regret losing them. They're not worth my time.

But if they can deal with that enough to actually want to be around me as often as they are, especially Boyfriend, then they must really ♥♥♥♥ing love me and I feel the same about them. <3
 
I think my friends care about me a lot, I've never doubted that, but I also think they use me. Somehow I've always manage to surround myself with people who aren't quite as well off as I am and I'm very generous with them, telling them not to feel uncomfortable asking for favours if they need anything. But I've learned that some of them do start to take advantage of me, so I do feel used sometimes.
 
I always ponder that question, to be honest, since I'm someone with low self-esteem and confidence ;; But as much as I love the close friends that I have, I would have to say they probably don't. Judging from peoples' comments about how nice, and kind I am, sometimes I feel like I'm giving way too much, but it's not reciprocating :c Sometimes I don't mind, but there have been times where my mind has wondered, and then left me feeling depressed.
 
I care a crazy amount for my friends - I'd put their lives ahead of my own. But, would my own friends share that type of mentality? I heavily doubt it. My emotions are stronger compared to theirs, my feelings of trust are stronger, which allows these feelings to take me over. I bet things without caring about the consequences, witjout thinking of what I'll get, which is how I feel about this topic.
 
I'm maybe not entirely sure about how much my friends care about me (though my really close ones/relationship partners said that I'm "one of the purest, kind-hearted souls I know"), yet I'm definitely sure that any single one of my friends is someone extremely important and worthy to me, I always try to help then whenever they're in need and generally would do anything for them that lies within my possibilities.

Sorry if that sounded cheesy :x
 
Nope, I highly doubt it. I'm up for helping them with stuff or chatting but i don't get attached and i'm guessing their not attached to me either.
 
me me me me me

Christ, with cynics for friends, it's no wonder they won't be caring towards you. 8D

I have some absolutely magnificent friends, and I'm always going to be fuming at them now and then, but that's because I'm one passionate ♥♥♥♥, heh. I have their backs and they have mine. :)
 
I think it's pretty equal throughout. The ones I show that I really care for show that they care for me back and the ones I don't show that side to don't show that side to me either.
 
My friends hate me. I constantly wonder if everyone who is my "friend" is just doing so on a bet to see who can pretend to like me the longest. Winner gets $1,000.
 
Most of them, I highly doubt it. I care a great deal from my friends, I'm the one they turn to for help and I'm always going out of my way to make them feel good about themselves and to make them happy. My truly close friends though, I know they all do the same for me without batting an eyelid so I'm confident that they care at least close to as much for me.
 
I imagine my friends care about me considerably more than I care about them. I'm the notoriously flakey friend. If I make plans they happen but if someone else makes plans I might change my mind and just not turn up. I don't really know why.
 
Nonon said:
I care a crazy amount for my friends - I'd put their lives ahead of my own. But, would my own friends share that type of mentality? I heavily doubt it. My emotions are stronger compared to theirs, my feelings of trust are stronger, which allows these feelings to take me over. I bet things without caring about the consequences, witjout thinking of what I'll get, which is how I feel about this topic.
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It's not everyday that you come across someone who treasures you as much as you do them, but that makes you an even more valuable friend to have, and they shouldn't take it for granted (: I have the same issue where I often the needs of my friends ahead of my own. Sometimes whenever I think that one day they'll randomly decide to break off our friendship for whatever reason, it's their loss, not mine.
 
I sometimes worry about how easily I can detach from my friends. If a friend decided they no longer wanted to be around me, I might miss them a bit but I could detach with almost no difficulty and move on. This is true of basically everyone in my life, excepting a small few. I wonder sometimes if it's because I have a lot of willpower and am used to being not quite happy in life so even if it makes me unhappy I don't see it.

So, I care about my friends but if they knew that I feel like they would think I care about them less.
 
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