Fleurdelis
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Well if everyone else says otherwise you're probably just too harsh on yourself.... =3
no they're in the wrong clearly B)
Well if everyone else says otherwise you're probably just too harsh on yourself.... =3
Loving yourself can be very hard (can relate). It means to accept your flaws and work hard on those you want to change. Of course, that's usually easier said than done. But you're still young so you will get plenty of opportunities to improve your self image.
But I'm glad you at least have other people around you that like you for who you are and who are willing to give you a break when you need it. :)
Accepting your body the way it is can be hard at times, and not something anyone can help you with fully, since the issue is in your own head (having good people around can help make it easier though). It might help to focus on what you consider good about yourself, and knowing that everyone has flaws, and that you don't have to be perfect.
I never loved myself, always thought I was one ugly insufferable person.
Still think like that even if everyone else says otherwise
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Alright mister, square up. I can and will fight you on this.
The dangerous thing about low self esteem is that you end up underselling yourself. For example I would never associate you with repairing printers. I think you fit better in a role that involves planning and strategizing coming off of the types of games you play.I never loved myself, always thought I was one ugly insufferable person.
Still think like that even if everyone else says otherwise
Small things like this can do a lot of positive and the more of these small things happen the more it will lead to a better understanding of what you what. Ngl, though, I myself still have a long way to go, as well.I'm really thankful for them. I feel way better about myself now than I used to years ago, and I think I'm just having a bit of a rougher period right now. I used to just complain about how I looked all the time and never made any effort to change it and now I'm slowly kinda finding that it's possible to change that and slowly working out how I'd like to. Bought new clothes recently, that was kinda nice. A friend of mine convinced me to buy this really cute hoodie since they were buying something similar. Definitely felt very cute to wear it.
The dangerous thing about low self esteem is that you end up underselling yourself. For example I would never associate you with repairing printers. I think you fit better in a role that involves planning and strategizing coming off of the types of games you play.
Okies... I will catch up on the conversation when I'm not half asleep... but obviously I had to post!
I'm really thankful for them. I feel way better about myself now than I used to years ago, and I think I'm just having a bit of a rougher period right now. I used to just complain about how I looked all the time and never made any effort to change it and now I'm slowly kinda finding that it's possible to change that and slowly working out how I'd like to. Bought new clothes recently, that was kinda nice. A friend of mine convinced me to buy this really cute hoodie since they were buying something similar. Definitely felt very cute to wear it.
I also don't have much productive to say, but I hope everyone enjoyed their day.
My entire wardrobe consists of two types of outfits. "upstanding young adult" and "homeless", because heavily baggy clothes are comfortable to me.
I'm used to underselling myself. Also might come off as a suprise but im arse at planning and strategizing, most of the time I go with the flow in those games xD
Ok bring it, ill have you know my melee capablilties are beyond your comprehension
Eh, it was okay I guess. Your average workday =p
How was yours though?
I tend to mind my own business in RTS' and try to bunker down. Whoever attacks me first becomes my target and I unleash everything I have at them xD
Which usually results in both of us getting killed since others will either just let us fight it out and pounce whoever wins, or pile up on me xD
you seem to be under the impression she won't use ranged weaponry.... 😏
Well, there has to be some level of competence if you don't really need to think about what you're doing in those games. Especially newer ones which are so infested with complicated mechanics that you can't beat them by randomly mashing buttons, anymore. <_<I'm used to underselling myself. Also might come off as a suprise but im arse at planning and strategizing, most of the time I go with the flow in those games xD