Shiny Bunnelby
Tolerated, but never celebrated.
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- 9
- Years
- Age 32
- Oklahoma, United States
- Seen Nov 1, 2015
Some people fix their photos, anyway, so I have been in this position before. He was, sorry to say, highly unattractive in person. I continued dating him anyway, because I reminded myself that I could have easily been in his position, and because he made me laugh all the time.
However, insecurity makes a person ugly when it's taken out on the partner. I spent more days after that ditching everything to cheer him up, and many more days insisting that my friends are only friends. It became toxic and made me depressed. One day he even posed as his mother online and said that he attempted suicide and was in the hospital because I was a terrible girlfriend. Suicide is already touchy for me, as I attempted it myself before even "meeting" this guy. So it destroyed me. I called his house phone and I figured out that it was a huge lie for attention. That was it for me. :/
However, insecurity makes a person ugly when it's taken out on the partner. I spent more days after that ditching everything to cheer him up, and many more days insisting that my friends are only friends. It became toxic and made me depressed. One day he even posed as his mother online and said that he attempted suicide and was in the hospital because I was a terrible girlfriend. Suicide is already touchy for me, as I attempted it myself before even "meeting" this guy. So it destroyed me. I called his house phone and I figured out that it was a huge lie for attention. That was it for me. :/