Some of the phrases here I find somewhat troubling.
The idea that children who weren't beaten don't respect their parents / children respect parents who do beat them. Not only is the correlation here likely very weak but it also sets a disturbing tone for adult life. "Want someone to respect you? Beat them up, show them you're stronger, show them you're in charge" etc.etc. I don't support that view, therefore it makes no sense to hit a child to make them 'respect' you.
I also find the idea of it being "necessary" awful. Hitting someone in general is rarely necessary - even in an act of self defense hitting someone back is a last resort. I can understand you might need to physically restrain your child if they were aggressive but otherwise no.
When I have a child I hope I never make the silly choice to hit them :(. I'll give most parents the benefit of the doubt that they do it in the heat of the moment and regret it instantly.
The idea that children who weren't beaten don't respect their parents / children respect parents who do beat them. Not only is the correlation here likely very weak but it also sets a disturbing tone for adult life. "Want someone to respect you? Beat them up, show them you're stronger, show them you're in charge" etc.etc. I don't support that view, therefore it makes no sense to hit a child to make them 'respect' you.
I also find the idea of it being "necessary" awful. Hitting someone in general is rarely necessary - even in an act of self defense hitting someone back is a last resort. I can understand you might need to physically restrain your child if they were aggressive but otherwise no.
When I have a child I hope I never make the silly choice to hit them :(. I'll give most parents the benefit of the doubt that they do it in the heat of the moment and regret it instantly.