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Ok.
I have a big. Well fairly big, problem.
Its big IMO.
See, my old source for advice is down for the day...so this is my backup helping place.
So yeah, my problem is~
There is this girl, I have liked her....for about 4 years, she has always kinda been a friend of mine since I really met her...but I don't wanna be 'just friends' its just not what I see for us. I see, an "us". So yeah, I finally got the balls to ask her out, and she ignored it, then I finally got ahold of her, and she said that she wasn't in the mood for a BF and that she wanted time off of it...but she said that if I was her BF, I would be an awesome BF. Next day she asks out one of my [not really best friends, but a friend] friends. This left a "O_O" look on my face when I heard this, so I asked her [as a friend] if she wanted to go to the dance this Friday along with other chat in a message, she ignores the dance question and goes straight to the other conversation. Then....she just stops talking to me.
Is it completely impossible? Or do I have a chance?
it is possible but don't ask her for a while, I went something like you have but me and the girl i like friendship went sky rocketing down hill because i asked her out too much so yeah don't ask for like ages