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To day at school i wrote a story about a gay guy in school for english.
the person i sit next to read it and thought it was about me.
he shouts about it to everyone in my class and everyone comes up to me and starts strokeing me and huging me so i hit the guy next to me in the balls. everone thought i was tring to grab his balls so the spread it round me whole ear that i am gay(wich if i am its not their business,im unsure of my sexualit)

Now none of my freinds will talk to me, the all hate me.
Ive got nofriends now.(well one but hes gay so it dosent help mi cause)

I just wanna know what i can do to have freinds again?? Im evan more muddled up about m sexuality.

If my foster perents find out i dont know what the will do and i know the are gnna find out. =(
Sorry if its im a problem.
 
zanacross said:
To day at school i wrote a story about a gay guy in school for english.
the person i sit next to read it and thought it was about me.
he shouts about it to everyone in my class and everyone comes up to me and starts strokeing me and huging me so i hit the guy next to me in the balls. everone thought i was tring to grab his balls so the spread it round me whole ear that i am gay(wich if i am its not their business,im unsure of my sexualit)

Now none of my freinds will talk to me, the all hate me.
Ive got nofriends now.(well one but hes gay so it dosent help mi cause)

I just wanna know what i can do to have freinds again?? Im evan more muddled up about m sexuality.

If my foster perents find out i dont know what the will do and i know the are gnna find out. =(
Sorry if its im a problem.
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First of all........don't apologise for having a problem, everyone has them and it'd be pretty unfair for people to make you feel bad for having one.

As for your problem, i think if your friends are good friends they'll listen to you and just understand it was one of those heated moments and it meant nothing. You may be subjected to a bit of ribbing from your friends but that's how guys are, don't take it personally and embrace it. Just go hang out with them as normal and go from there.

Now, with your sexuality issues, i think that's something only you can decide on. Does writing a story about a homosexual make you homosexual? No, of course it doesn't. If you're attracted to the same sex, then that's something you would probably be better off confronting rather than hiding it. I'm not saying you have to go and scream from the rooftops about your sexuality, but don't kid yourself and cheat yourself.

At your age it's a very confusing time and i hope you come through it. Try not to worry about it and i'm sure it'll fix itself.
 
I just want to make a note that to the day of today i dont have any problem that i can actually think of..I am a very happy person and have achieved most of the things that i propose to. I am thankful that i have people that love and support me through everything. I have health and good economical situation. I just finished high school and was accepted to colleges here and in spain. Tomorrow i am going to go to the US for family vacations and i am so looking forward to it.

But yep i have had problems ..problems according to the age of course.. like i suppose most of you have had.Let me share with you that even if i was at the top 10% of my class and excel in some subjects ..i sucked deeply at math.. i struggled for a passing grade sometimes.And in occasions depended on a specific test to pass the term or year.Proving not everyone is perfect.I lived in constant pressure since i didn't tell it to anyone , because i didnt want people to know i could fail. Thankfully all went smooth and i could pass everything .. and like i always wanted nobody did actually notice ,except for the teacher i guess.
 
zanacross said:
Ok thank you very much.

Wh is life complicated?
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Life is complicated because so many things can go wrong. You can plan out exactly what you want to do in your life but then something could happen to change all of that. Like someone could die that you are close to. You could get a cancer and things. But the best thing is having good people around you to talk to about it.

About your problem.
Everyone gets them at some point. I had a few a year or so ago. But now I have everything back to being right. I failed tests and everything. So don't be sorry for having problems.

Try and explain that it wasn't about you but just a made up story. If your worried about your foster parents just explain it fully to them before they hear it from someone else. I'm sure they will understand.

Your friends should stick by you no matter what happens. If they don't then they aren't good friends.

Whatever your sexuality turns out to be just embrace it and don't hide it. If you hide it it can lead to complications later on in life.
 
Lady Nicole said:
You know what? My father was raised badly. When he was five his sister was born and he was sent away to live with distant relatives for a few years. His mother just ignored him completely but didn't ignore his sister. He never talks to his sister because she used to take advantage of the favouratism going on.
Hey, maybe he has something against me because I'm a sister...
I'm not anything like his sister cos I'm always really nice to my brother but still.
Yeah, I'll get away from him. Thanks for the help, everyone. =)
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I would have quoted a different post but this was closest.

If your up to it, i don't know how to word it but if you help out your Dad it might help you out too.
Its hard for people to break habits when they started as little kids, as those are the "good days" but remember its not impossible.
He still loves you inside. You probabley do but try to always look him in the eye, and see deeper.

O ya i didn't read much of the replies to this because i'm in a hurry for something but if i repeated anyhting or didn't see the whole problem, sorry.
 
Mr.May16 said:
I would have quoted a different post but this was closest.

If your up to it, i don't know how to word it but if you help out your Dad it might help you out too.
Its hard for people to break habits when they started as little kids, as those are the "good days" but remember its not impossible.
He still loves you inside. You probabley do but try to always look him in the eye, and see deeper.

O ya i didn't read much of the replies to this because i'm in a hurry for something but if i repeated anyhting or didn't see the whole problem, sorry.
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This has started a sort of debate. XD

But if you try and look people like that in the eye it doesn't really help. My dad had a good childhood. He was never treated bad. He treated his little sister horrible though. I think that is were it started and nothing was ever done to him when he did something bad. He has been counseling and that hasn't worked. He is currently under investigation form the police due to him kicking my little sister after he had an argument with me and I left so he kicked her instead of me.

Only way for me to get away from it is when I'm at my mums house. I don't really see my dad. I get in from school and am on internet till dinner then after dinner I am in my room all night. So try and avoid him.
 
Okay, a problem, I'm trying to resolve it, but...

Okay, we all know Careful with that Axe, Pichu, and he is seriously pissing me off. My anger had subsided for awhile, but I went and looked in this poem thread were both of us posted, and seeing what he said angered me so bad.

Anyway, I will always post this thing, whatever it is, and he will some find some kind of wrong or fault and smash it into my brain, "IT'S WRONG!! IT'S WRONG!!" and I'm over here going, "You moron."

In conclusion, I always feel targeted by him, abnd I frigging hate it.

So, I've decided to give him one final message that strongly tells him how I feel. And if I could have any pointers for this task, I will thank you.
 
What exactly do the people say or do to you? Need abit more information please.
 
That happens to everyone at some point. Try to avoid the people that do it. Also don't react and they won't find it enjoyable as they tend to enjoy making people feel bad. But if you show no responce then they will stop.
 
Yeah, as Razor302 says, try not to show them any signs of weakness or they'll just enjoy it more. Try to make it boring for them by not reacting the way they want you to.
Also try to stay with your friends when they're around because bullies don't usually attack people when they're around their friends.

What's your medical problem btw?
 
i dont have many friends left anymore since they dound out about my problem. and im not posting about my medical problem here. ill get flamed way bad. i posted it HERE tho.
 
Aww that's so sad :( I really feel for you.
Do you have a neurological/nervous system problem which is causing it, by any chance? Is it a long-term problem or is it something you will eventually grow out of?

Hmmm I don't really know how to help you. Have you told anyone else about how people are bullying you about it? Maybe you can talk to a child psychiatrist or doctor about your problem and he/she can help you get through the bullying side of it.
 
nope. i dont think that i have a nervous system problem. and it started getting really worse when i had to have um "protection",

i feel like doing something really stupid to myself :(
 
It's probably getting worse with stress because of the bullies. Maybe you should talk to you mom about it, you need to get rid of your stress. If you got rid of that, I'm sure your medical problem wouldn't be so bad.

I have bad kidneys and I have a problem which is sort of "opposite" to yours if you get what I mean. So sometimes when I think my bladder is full it actually isn't and it causes me an unnecessary trip to the bathroom only to find that I didn't need to go after all, and that gets worse with stress.

Whatever you're thinking of doing to yourself, please don't do. I'm sure you'll find a way to get through this obstacle, you just need to talk to people about it.
 
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