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Too tired to do proper replies just posting to say I've seen stuff and will get back to you.
So you are going to use anecdotal evidence to support your claim. :/
Too tired to do proper replies just posting to say I've seen stuff and will get back to you.
So you are going to use anecdotal evidence to support your claim. :/
Who is using abortion as their primary contraceptive, though? Here's an article with some pretty interesting, cited, stats re: that exact subject.
I'm pro choice, Ursula summed it up nicely but also:
What if she's raped? People don't choose to be raped, and they shouldn't have to live with it.
Some men are just dicks when it comes to using protection and birth control for women can be expensive because most governments are assholes about it.
In a lot of countries women have literally no options and yet are still shamed for making this last choice.
Also what choices someone makes are not the business of strangers. Other people shouldn't get to decide what you do. especially if they don't have to live with the choices? It just seems weird to me.
Well I would say the fathers opinion matters on the basis of how involved he is in the mothers life and wants to be involved in the life of the potential baby...since he's not carrying it.
As for the 'case of irresponsibility' there could be so many differing factors for every different case and as Ursula pointed out it's really not the norm. Again as far as 'living with the consequences' this could very likely bring an unwanted and unloved child into the world. The mother has no obligation to love the child after all and could potentially be highly resentful of its existence. That's not fair on anyone.
Huh? Regardless of whether or not it applies to you personally it is definitely a fair point to make in the moral aspects of abortion. I feel like you're just deflecting because you didn't want to engage this.
I think you're confusing sentience for sapience here. And 'here' is different for everyone as this is an international forum but the evidence is only a few clicks away to see how bad livestock is often treated. Also: laws=/=morals. But the relevant point I was making is the creating of life to come into the world for the purpose of slaughter, for me that is much worse than ending an unwanted conception.
I see that you value human life above other forms of life and I won't judge you for that since it is a norm we have all grown up with. I'm just asking for the same courtesy for women that find themselves in the unfortunate position of having an unwanted pregnancy. You can't have "human life is more valuable than animal life" as an objective truth as much as I also can't have "fetal matter isn't a person" as an objective truth.
I feel like you're just deflecting from this because you don't want to engage the comparison. Again, you can't have "human life is more valuable than animal life" as an objective truth as much as I also can't have "fetal matter isn't a person" as an objective truth.
But you're giving me many reasons to feel that way as a lot of your beliefs do fall into that camp as others have pointed out too. None of us are perfect and there is no moral rule book to look at. I think women should be given the courtesy of being able to choose with what happens to their bodies and not be judged for it. You believe that right is conditional. You can't get out of debating a point by saying 'that doesn't apply to me' because it's not just about you. If you have an opinion on something you should be prepared to argue from all angles.
Also if abortion is totally legalized people aren't gonna use it as their primary contraceptive. Those who get abortions don't just decide all willy nilly and I have no idea where that thought came from?
When you say things like that it's coming off as if you think women are irresponsible and uncaring, which they aren't?
Most people who get abortions do so because it's their last choice.
Also, I'm sorry if this is rude, but it's ultimately the woman's decision since the man doesn't have to go through pregnancy.
I mean, there is a chance some women will just keep getting abortions just so they cant give birth and have lots of sex, chance which is actually really slim.
I say legalize it because not all times women are ready to be mothers, and if you have seen some of those adopting agencies, they are actually bit of a bad quality. I actually havent seen too many of them, but the ones portraid on TV and movies are not good at all. So not letting a person be born is better than having them probably live in a crappy home or chance of being homeless.
Plus sometimes people get caught up in the moment and forget to use protection. Thats just my thoughts though.
Irresponsibility is irresponsibility, let's not pretend otherwise. Even in the case of the people who are using contraception, it is common knowledge that no method is 100% effective and you have to acknowledge that there is a certain degree of risk involved.
Better use of resources to improve how governments deal with children without parents/involved parents would deal with that problem. Pretty much every developed nation, and I'd guess many undeveloped ones, have the resources to provide perfectly good lives to children who would otherwise get stuck in a mukty foster system and are misusing them. I can't support the easy ending of life with that as an excuse for it when I know it doesn't have to be that way.
As for "it's not that common". I've dealt with that point already. 54% of the people who get abortions used contraception, that means the remaining 46% don't. Of course, since 9% of that 54% are using the pull-out method it's actually more like 45% are using contraception and 55% are not. It's a lot more common than people seem to want to acknowledge. It might not necessarily be an easy choice, but it's still a choice people are making.
It applies because I'm defending my own view point, not the traditional pro-life camp's.
"For you", sorry now who is pushing their opinions onto things?
I think you are severely mistaking my values to an extent. I don't believe human life is inherently more valuable than other life. The reason killing for food is okay is because it's an exchange of one life of equal value for another life.
I'm no deflecting anything. Fetal matter is a distinct human life. That is an objective proof. It is living human organic matter with its own distinctive genetic makeup. "It's not a person" that is unobjective.
I am hoping this post has cleared up a lot of what differentiates my views from the typical republican because I really do not enjoy being lumped in with a group of people I fundamentally disagree with on the vast majority of issues. I'll say it again, there is overlap between my beliefs and the beliefs of both the pro-choice and pro-life camps. I don't belong to either and it's quite tiresome to have the pro-lifers against me for being too pro-choice and the pro-choicers being against me for being too pro-life. Is it really that hard to see that a moderate position is available and that you don't have to be on the extremes of the spectrum?
Getting an abortion under most circumstances isn't anything like that. It's trading a life to make life easier. There's no equity in that. I'm not giving sympathy and a license to kill to the 55% of people who don't use proper contraception and are then shocked when they find themselves with an unwanted pregnancy. You don't have the right to take a life because you were irresponsible. You might sway me on cases like Hands', but that would cease to be the case if the resource management issue was resolved and society started providing for those children properly.
I mean, there is a chance some women will just keep getting abortions just so they cant give birth and have lots of sex, chance which is actually really slim.
I say legalize it because not all times women are ready to be mothers, and if you have seen some of those adopting agencies, they are actually bit of a bad quality. I actually havent seen too many of them, but the ones portraid on TV and movies are not good at all. So not letting a person be born is better than having them probably live in a crappy home or chance of being homeless. Plus sometimes people get caught up in the moment and forget to use protection. Thats just my thoughts though.
But what about after the child is born? It is unwanted, it won't have a good life in the foster care system. Every child brought into the world should be by choice, when the mother is ready and able and wanting to care for, like you say, a whole other life.
You can't just bring kids in the world to face a life of hardship that comes with being thrown around by social services. You say "well we need to fix it" but how likely is that to happen? I'm talking about the now, the current issues people are facing. To subject a child to this for your own reasons is cruel.
Universal socialism isn't likely to happen either but I'm sure as hell going to fight for it because I believe it's right. Saying "oh it's unlikely" isn't a reason for me not to defend a stance. A lot of things worth advocating for aren't particularly likely.
Think it's not a parallel? Try and tell me economic disparity between classes isn't a thing.
Places have the resources to give those kids the kind of life they deserve and I can't justify making abortion readily available without a damn good reason when I know that.
Those places also have the resources to look after the millions in poverty but don't.
Pro-tip: If he's being a dick about protection, don't have sex with him.
and I'll always argue against that practice too, as do you.
Are you going to stop just because they don't?
Arguing is all well and good, and of course I won't stop, but there are real world consequences in the meantime. Even though I argue for the abolition of British parliament I still vote Labour because they are going to do the least harm to people who are in a worse position than me.
I can't tell if you replied to my comment about embryos not having sentience until roughly 20 weeks in relation to farm animals outright having sentience but I think it's an important point to consider.
What about people who have contraception fail? They weren't irresponsible, they were unlucky. I've had condoms split. Luckily most of the girls were on the pill. A couple weren't so we took the morning after pill. My sister got unlucky on a drunk night out, clinics and doctors are closed on a sunday. Thankfully I managed to find an over the counter seller of Plan B who didnt require a consultation for it but if we hadnt she would have had to go an extra day, which halfs plan B's real term effectiveness.
It's not a throwaway thing where people bone, then 8 months later decide theyre gonna kill the kid. It's a semi common failure of medication or a slip of mind that leads to either Plan B or a 4-8 week termination.
Apparently for 55% of people it is.
Rachel Jones said:"Contraceptive methods are highly effective at preventing unintended pregnancies, but no method—and no user—is perfect, Abortion patients should have access to the full range of contraceptive counseling and services to support them in preventing future unintended pregnancies."
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I'm actually curious as to what you guys think in the case of a transgender person, such as myself.
being a teen isn't an excuse for being a moron and having unprotected sex when you aren't ready to be a parent.
Apologies for the short reply here but I'm a shitload of pain right now so I don't feel much like researching for an essay.
re: 1.3% - I don't recall mentioning sentience as a factor in my opinion? If I did bring it up that was foolish of me because it's really a very small part in my perspective.
The majority of animals aren't sentient and I think if they are treated as humanely as possible it's fine. That's a lot better than ending a human life as a matter of convenience.
re: locality - Fair point. I'll dig up some sources from other countries later. I will say though that I doubt there's that much variation in typical western countries like the US, Canada, England, Australia etc.
Breaking format now because I'm a rebel. I'll have to go back and check but I'm pretty sure it mentions an increase from 7% to 9% of people using the pull out method in some brackets about half way through.
The share of abortion patients relying on condoms decreased between 2000 and 2014 (from 28% to 24%), and there was a small but significant increase in the share of patients who relied on withdrawal (from 7% in 2000 to 9% in 2014). Use of long-acting reversible contraceptive (LARC) methods among abortion patients increased from 0.1% in 2000 to 1% in 2014. Jones notes that as more and more U.S. women rely on these methods, a larger number of individuals will experience method failure. It is also possible that some abortion patients became pregnant shortly after they stopped using LARCs or other contraceptive methods.
As far as the 49% goes, for the sake of fairness in this debate (as far as my stance is concerned anyway) we'd probably have to exclude rape victims from both them and the count of people who did use protection as I'm not against them having abortions if they need to.
Very few pregnancies are ectopic or involve life threatening situations
In 2015, 54% of women undergoing abortions had one or more previous pregnancies that
resulted in a live or stillbirth, up from 47% in 2005 (See Table 3a.vii). 19% of women had a
previous pregnancy resulting in a miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy, up from 14% in 2005.
(Table 3a.viii)
and being a teen isn't an excuse for being a moron and having unprotected sex when you aren't ready to be a parent
there is still a sizeable percentage here that were simply irresponsible.