Unlikable qualities

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antemortem

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    What personality traits or qualities do you dislike in other people?
     
    Not knowing when to stop talking, irrational, won't listen to reason, I'm basically describing myself here, hah.
    Probably the one thing I hate most is when they're conformers who try to make you conform as well. Then if they say you're "scared," I just wanna hulk smash that twit.
     
    Being inconsiderate, ignorant, stubborn are very unlikable qualities in my opinion.

    I also loathe trolling, especially in more serious situations. I guess it ties with being inconsiderate and ignorant, but it really grinds my gears when I see someone saying something stupid just to get some reaction out of others.
     
    Arrogance, tryhards, fakers.

    The three sorta tie in when you got that person who think's they're the shizznit, but they'll go out of their way acting all nonchalant and try to downplay their strengths or accomplishments, often displaying facades of ignorance.
     
    Chiming in with a bunch of you. I don't like when people are intolerant, inconsiderate, condescending, or disrespectful. Basically I don't like rude people. I also dislike when people continue to argue a point for the sake of continuing an argument or don't empathize or always take the opposing side just to do so. That's just irritating.

    And excessive hyperactivity and loudness just tends to grate on me after a while. I get really stressed sometimes when there are a lot of small shouty children around.
     
    I generally get on well with others. The one thing that grinds my gears though is probably people asking something along the lines of "Geez can you talk? Why are you so shy?" First of all, it's rude and disrespectful. People don't have to participate in a conversation if they don't want to. Secondly, if the person is actually shy, it'll just make them feel worse. Plus it adds to the pressure of opening up and talking. Another quality I hate is probably being self-centered. I mean, come on, how long can you talk about yourself? It comes off as arrogant and boastful. Then there's also being rude for obvious reasons. Lastly, I absolutely can not stand people who spread terrible rumours about someone else. It's just not on, okay? :[
     
    So I mostly agree with some of you. But I also situationally display some of these behaviours.
    Namely, condescension in the face of the ignorant, and arguing for the sake of arguing.
    Arguing is now a sport.

    I might as well contribute while I'm here.

    I really hate stupidity. Like oh my god hate. I also hate people who are exactly like me. Everything I am, is entirely repulsive in someone else.
    This is actually only a me thing, I don't know anyone else who has this problem.
     
    I generally don't dislike a whole lot about others because their traits are a part of who they are and I respect that. There are a few things though that tend to upset me and the biggest one is when people lie or are deceiving about who they actually are. If you can't be yourself around me, don't try to be anyone else. It only makes you come off as fake and I don't want to be around someone like that.
     
    I like people in general but condescension is an instant turn off. Even if they didn't direct it towards me I don't think I could get along with them at all if I see it happening.

    You're not as smart as you think you are buddy, relax.
     
    Ignorant, foolish, nosy, judgemental, illiterate, and people who ignore you just like that. You know, all of a sudden.
     
    I hate anyone who is disrespectful. Another thing that I hate is anyone with a massive ego.
     
    People who can give others a look with the purpose of making the other person notice that you think they are below you. People who can even consider doing it. People who think it is somehow okay to act like they are better than others when it is uncalled for.

    You are free to think and believe whatever you want, dislike whoever you want and want whatever you want. But I really, really, really don't think you are a human being worthy of my positive thoughts if you want to show someone else that you think you are better than them. Oh, I'm fuming here just thinking about the times I've seen this happen. And I really hope I have never done this, if so I regret it very much.

    So, the ability - or maybe habit of doing this, is an unlikable quality in my eyes.
     
    A lot of things already mentioned, especially intolerance and lack of respect for those around you.

    But on a less drastic level to those, I dislike noisy people. I could never be friends with someone who feels the need to shout all the time or doesn't know when to give it a rest.
     
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