Would you be gay?

[Rokusasu]

A friend and I had a conversation like this a while back, and we both agreed that if I were male then I'd be gay. XD I couldn't really imagine myself being a straight guy, or even bisexual, which is weird, because I'm bi-curious. o_o;

 

[Luck]

I'd be bisexual if possible.
Not only do I piss off some of the more crazy religious people, but the amount of people to date just skyrocket :3

 

[Sublime]

I'd totally be a full on lesbian. 'Cept, not one of those scary ones. I'd be one of those super hot ones that all the guys were like "Man, if only she were straight."

Yea (b^ ^)b

Plus, the thought of being with a guy is just weird x[

 

[Captain Hobo.]

Heck nooooooo! I would ever be gay.

 

[Rogue planet]

If I woke up as the opposite gender then I would change nothing and remain the same as I am now.
Why would I want to change my mentality just to suit my physical body?

 

[Crystal-Heart]

Well..considering that I'm a bisexual girl who leans towards women..I guess I'd still be bisexual.

I should really get to work on that Dimensional Jumping Machine of mine..then I could just pop into the Alternate Reality where everyone's genders are reversed and ask myself ^.^

 

[Zero°]

Bi>Gay.
If I were a girl,(If I am a guy, >_>) I'd probably be bisexual. I'd date both, guys and girls :D

 

[Aegis]

Considering I'm gay as it is, I'd be straight as a girl.

I feel like I should type more but there's nothing more to add.

 

[Klippy]

I'd be a lesbian, totally.

And I'd also get all the guys to fall in love with me, then totally be a rude woman like most women are. :>!

 

[Corvus of the Black Night]

You know, I really despise threads like this.

The thing is, being "gay" is a part of who someone is. It's not like someone wakes up in the morning and says, "I feel that a change in my sexual orientation will be fun, and that I shall start falling in love with those of the same sex as me!" It's not like someone else wakes up in the morning and exclaims, "You know, I was gay my entire life and I think that I shall now decide to love those of the opposite sex, therefore making me bisexual."

Being "gay" is not something that is meant to look "cool" or to "be with the crowd" or even to imitate homosexuality in cartoons or anime. Being gay is a part of your identity, something that defines you as a unique person. It should never be used as something to look "cool" or to be like a cartoon character. Believe me, I live in the same house as someone who pulled this stunt for two years, and it's a very offensive thing to do.

Your sexual preference is something that everyone is born with, not a choice. How can one ask themselves, "would I be gay?"

In response to the actual question:

No. I would not be gay, because I am heterosexual. I was born as a heterosexual and I will not be able to change my sexuality by choice, and even if I were, I would not, as I would be mistreated by the general community. People treat gays like ****, and to be honest, there are gays that look at themselves in shame because of how they were born, as a response to how people treat them.

BOTTOM LINE:
Nobody should never be forced to feel the need to change their identity, homosexual or heterosexual; male or female; black, white, green, red, purple, and anything else for that matter.

Being gay is not something that makes you "cool", it is something that defines yourself. Be gay if you honestly have a preference of the other gender, not to "be cool". You shouldn't be afraid of what you are, but on the other side of the coin, don't be someone who you aren't, because it doesn't make you unique, it doesn't make you interesting, it makes you look flat, boring, and even offensive.

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[Bay]

Charon, dang it I was about to do that rant too, but you beat me to it! D: Yeah, if you're gay, you're gay, nothing wrong with that.

Anyways, I'll admit I'm female and I would comment on either a woman at my school or a female celebrity and say they looked hot and such. However, my other female friends does that too and we mostly do out of compliment since as far as I know, our preference is more on males (and when we comment how hot that man is, we really meant it :P ). For the most part my preference is on men, even though I don't plan on dating just yet (I know, I'm lame that I haven't got a boyfriend yet at my age, but whatever). :P It's not that I avoid liking another female, but at the moment I'm not attractive to a woman just yet because they don't give me this excited and rousing feeling if I see a man. Okay, a bit TMI. XD;

If I were suddenly changed to a gentleman (which I would like, actually because they're cooler than ladies XD), then if I'm still attractive to men, I'll go with that. I won't change my sexual preference just because I suddenly changed to a different sex.

Considering my personality is a mix of both female and male traits, things can go both ways. :P

 

[Samme!]

I have no idea O_O I'm only 13 so I guess I haven't chosen yet... I really like girls though but everyone thinks I'm gay.... So would that make me a Bisexual Girl then?

 

[Kishijoten]

Apparently no. I will NEVER be gay. Because, I fall in love with the opposite gender I'm sure that's a clear answer. NEVER will I be gay. Unless you mean happy that is.

 

[ShinjisLover]

I already am half-gay. .

Of course. I wouldn't let one little technicality stop me.​

 

[professor plum]

I have no idea O_O I'm only 13 so I guess I haven't chosen yet... I really like girls though but everyone thinks I'm gay.... So would that make me a Bisexual Girl then?

You don't choose. ):

I would most likely be a straight female, considering I'm a gay male. n_n

 

[Alistair]

I wouldn't be gay if I was a female. Then again, I wouldn't be straight or bi, either. I would probably have no sexual attractions at all, such as I do now.

So, asexuality for me.
Yes, you can be asexual, incase you didn't know.

 

[Ineffable~]

This is a difficult one to think about. XD

I would presume that since I am currently male and an admirer of feminine beauty, I would remain as such even if I did, indeed, become a woman. However, hormones are a hard thing to account for. Will my new configuration's levels of estrogen have an adverse effect on my sexual preferences? At the moment, I cannot possibly fathom ever being attracted to masculinity, but would I feel the same way whilst donning ovaries? who can say? At the very least, I can presume that I will be bisexual. XD

^This. xD

It's hard to say, but I don't think my hormones would overcome my mind. I've already been attracted to girls before.

iunno. xD

I think I've already developed the personality, if you know what I mean.

 

[vanna.]

I like both. I assume I'd still like both.

:] Man I love easy questions.

^^ This is my situation. Nothing much would change for me, really.

 

[Eucliffe]

I already consider myself bi, so no matter what gender I am, I'd always fall for either gender.

...

Actually, if I woke up a boy, I'd probably prefer pursuing a girl than another guy. I think it'd just feel weird for someone like me to go after a guy if I were a guy XD

 

[Harmonie]

You can't just decide what sex you want to be attracted to. It doesn't work that way.

I can't say what all would happen if you were to magically wake up as the opposite sex one day, though. That doesn't happen in real life so it's not possible to know what all would happen there...