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maccrash

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    what are the things that you look for in someone you're gonna potentially date?

    alternately, what gets your genitals all in a tizzy? like, what makes you horny tbh. idk if we can discuss that but it's worth a shot.
     
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    I look for someone who is loyal and accepting. There's nothing more I hate in a partner than when they have a problem with every little thing I do.
    Oh and a girl who loves anime and pokemon is a huge plus for me! xD

    I also like a girl in glasses. :3 but that isn't an important quality for me, just a plus lol.
     
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    I look for a guy who likes to travel, doesn't smoke cigarettes or weed, doesn't drink a lot and is just a lovable person funny person.
     
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    Honestly idrk what draws me to someone or what I'm actually looking for. All the people I've been with have been so different from each other that it's difficult for me to pin point.

    I get really turned on by confidence in a man. If they dress well/take care of themselves that's a plus also. Neither has me on the edge, but I guess it keeps me interested. What really turns me on is neck kissing/thigh grabbing/dirty talking. I enjoy being the submissive one so I love when the other person is aggressive/dominant.
     

    Oryx

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    Not gonna go into my sex life because too detailed for PC.

    But what I'm attracted to is a guy that isn't super outgoing, but just a bit more than me - it's not necessary, but if a guy can every once in a while anticipate that I might be too shy to say something and bring it up himself it's a huge plus. Also I need someone I can feel comfortable with; I can't really put that into personality traits, but someone who's similar enough to me that I don't feel drained by hanging out with them and feel like I can just be myself.
     
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    Just talk to people that interest you. Ask about them, learn about them; if you get along really well, great. If not, move on.

    I don't look for anything specific, I can appreciate a lot of characteristics. I guess I like the generic things; good sense of humour, not too high strung (but not a pushover), similar opinions/tastes. I like people who are very easy going, but are confident and don't have a problem making themselves heard when necessary.

    Exclusively sexual, it's just a matter of time since I got some, and how busy I am. If I got ♥♥♥♥ to do, I don't care. If not, it doesn't take much.
     

    BonkersRider

    Twisted Fashion Gal
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    There are some things that would not be allowed for me to type on here :D

    But some work safe physical things that can get me in the mood:
    *Shapely legs.
    *Tights.
    *My wife nibbling on the nape of my neck and ears.
    *Sensual kisses from my significant other.
     
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    I would want someone that has the same likes and dislikes for me.
    Not fugly is definetly a plus
     
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    TBH, the only thing that I really want is to have someone that I can co-exist with in a peaceful manner. That's all I'd like. Of course, a girl that isn't ugly, but not so strikingly beautiful that it makes me feel out of my league, would be wonderful to have.

    The main thing is, I would expect that person to pull their own weight in the house hold. If they can do that, then our lives are golden. Otherwise, they're getting the boot. I will not be someone's whipping boy so that they can be some kind of princess - I will have none of that!

    Most importantly, if they, out of the blue, tell me, "I want you to have my children!"

    turn-ons.

    ^That's how I'm going to respond to that.

    I. Do not. Want. To Have. A family. EVER!!! If she wants a family with someone, they're not going to get it from me - they'll have to look elsewhere
     

    Pinkie-Dawn

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    What I look for on someone is that she's kind, smart, decently attractive (bonus points if she enjoys wearing flip flops or sandals), and helpful. I'll also appreciate her having similar tastes.


    Most importantly, if they, out of the blue, tell me, "I want you to have my children!"

    turn-ons.

    ^That's how I'm going to respond to that.

    I. Do not. Want. To Have. A family. EVER!!! If she wants a family with someone, they're not going to get it from me - they'll have to look elsewhere
    Wouldn't that put your family bloodline at risk if you don't have children (assuming you're the last offspring of your family's generation of course)?
     

    TwilightBlade

    All dreams are but another reality.
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    He's gotta make me laugh and feel comfortable because I'm shy/nervous around most people. It's kind of hard to pinpoint, but he has to be sincere and humble enough so that I truly enjoy his company. I don't think I'll ever have kids, but pets are fine. He will have to embrace or at least understand that I need to occasionally play video games, watch anime, or chat on forums lol. I don't think that part of me will ever fade away.

    pls mow the lawn, cook, clean dishes, do laundry, make my bed in the morning
     

    Poki

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    He's gotta be Neymar Jr.

    I mean...

    I'm not picky, or anything. I just need someone who has similar interests, and understands why I do this & that, etc...
     

    Polar Spectrum

    I'm still here; watching. Waiting.
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    Hmmmm. Turn onssssss.

    Blue or pink hair on a girl (when it's done well; not lazy town's stephanie grade pink, or a faded botched blue dye job). I blame the Scott Pilgrim series for this. :p

    Non-superficially though, I like people who I can communicate well with, not just verbally.
    Someone whose eyes I can read, and can tell what I'm thinking by my body language and expression. Somebody whom I share mutual emotional understandings with. I know it's rare to find someone like that, but I'm convinced it's worth it haha. Also someone who's easy going and independent. Any clingy behavior pushes me away faster than a +6 Speed Ninjask in tailwind during rain with Swift swim skill swapped onto it wearing a choice scarf. I cannot handle clinginess.
     

    Sir Codin

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    Nice ass and she's gotta have the willingness to show it.
     

    Shining Raichu

    Expect me like you expect Jesus.
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    What I look for on someone is that she's kind, smart, decently attractive (bonus points if she enjoys wearing flip flops or sandals), and helpful. I'll also appreciate her having similar tastes.



    Wouldn't that put your family bloodline at risk if you don't have children (assuming you're the last offspring of your family's generation of course)?

    That's not necessarily something that everybody cares about :P
     

    Sonata

    Don't let me disappear
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    Well since my other comment got deleted I'll just go with the simplest answer since anything I say isn't appropriate for anywhere. I look for loyalty, I don't want someone that's just going to cheat on me every day.
     

    DarkIllumination

    The one in the darkness
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    I for a reason love red haired women alot since their passionate in what they do and Just like fire, don't play with her feelings or you will end in ashes but besides she needs to be confident, funny,tough, and look good while doing it and understanding.
     
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    I for a reason love red haired women alot since their passionate in what they do and Just like fire, don't play with her feelings or you will end in ashes but besides she needs to be confident, funny,tough, and look good while doing it and understanding.

    Fyi most red haired girls I know are rather shy and careful :p I don't think you can judge personality from hair color... Unless it's dyed of course, in which case it probably says a lot.

    For myself, to attract me you gotta have dem long beautiful eyelashes. Eyes are so much for me, one of the things that can initially attract me to a person. Especially on men. For girls... I think I look at their hair a lot more. They gotta have beautiful, well cared for hair 8)
     
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