The fact that you felt the need to reply to noa despite the fact that noa never addressed you in particular, but the group as a whole, means that you believe that your thinking is negative. and you dont want to admit it. Im not saying its a bad thing- I've been super negative in the past. But I've learned recently that being negative is useless and assuming that because I'm not as social as others that I cant get a girlfriend is stupid. There are millions of introverted people like you and I that have found their special someone. I think you are 16 and I'm 17... we have many more years before we would ever want to consider settling down and marrying (if you are into that). Our limited experience doesn't represent the future.