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The Forever Alone Thread

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Somewhere_

i don't know where
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    Well, Her made a thread for those that have had (or currently are having) romantic experiences, so we need the total opposite.

    Who here is destined to die without a lover? Your cat doesn't count.
     
    How saddening
     
    I felt this way growing up because no one was ever mutually interested in me, but idk a lot of that had to do with the fact that I was really overweight and I closed myself off from everyone because of that. Since then I've been in relationships and I've casually dated, but almost two years ago now I decided I didn't want to physically involve myself with someone unless we were both looking for the same thing. Ever since then it seems like I can only find people who just want to hook up or are looking to settle down as fast as possible. As much as I'd like to be with someone right now I'm also not willing to just jump into something with whoever is willing. So yeah sometimes I do catch myself thinking that I might end up alone because it's been hard finding someone who wants to take it slow like me and then also being someone I actually like on top of that. Plus I really don't want children and I'd like to use my career to travel a bit. I feel like it could take a long time to find someone who is on the same page as me... I do think it's possible it's just hard right now
     
    I'm not even good at committing to normal friends, I don't see myself committing to a relationship. I've been asked out twice so far, both times I've said no.

    Also relationships just seem stressful and dramatic, I don't want any part of that.
     
    I believe not going to college set me back relationship wise, but I'm sure I'll eventually find a girl for short shy me.
     
    I fully expect to be alone all my life, it's something I've come to accept. I'm just unlovable.
     
    TheUncreativeSawsbuckFan said:
    Not really, I know that I'm too awkward and lonely for any kind of relationship to ever happen
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    The fact that you felt the need to reply to noa despite the fact that noa never addressed you in particular, but the group as a whole, means that you believe that your thinking is negative. and you dont want to admit it. Im not saying its a bad thing- I've been super negative in the past. But I've learned recently that being negative is useless and assuming that because I'm not as social as others that I cant get a girlfriend is stupid. There are millions of introverted people like you and I that have found their special someone. I think you are 16 and I'm 17... we have many more years before we would ever want to consider settling down and marrying (if you are into that). Our limited experience doesn't represent the future.
     
    BadSheep said:
    The fact that you felt the need to reply to noa despite the fact that noa never addressed you in particular, but the group as a whole, means that you believe that your thinking is negative. and you dont want to admit it. Im not saying its a bad thing- I've been super negative in the past. But I've learned recently that being negative is useless and assuming that because I'm not as social as others that I cant get a girlfriend is stupid. There are millions of introverted people like you and I that have found their special someone. I think you are 16 and I'm 17... we have many more years before we would ever want to consider settling down and marrying (if you are into that). Our limited experience doesn't represent the future.
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    I know that I can't get a girlfriend, I'm so antisocial and tbh I really have no interest anyways

    Yeah some of my thinking is pretty negative but I'm losing a lot of confidence, my mental problems are starting to get worse, and I fail at a lot of things (like getting a job)
     
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