As we forgive those who trespass against us

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    Do you forgive easily? Do you forgive and forget? Forgive but never forget? Hold a grudge? Seek revenge?
     
    i can forgive and forget but it all depends on the severity of the situation. most of the time if we talk it out i can forget about the situation and move on from it. my ex who is a total pain in the ass and quite psycho is where i'd make an exception to seek revenge lmao.
     
    I don't forgive or forget, but I don't really hold a grudge either. I just...shut people out. I only give people one chance - if I give them a chance at all - and once they've blown it, that's it. I'm not really malicious about it, I just...don't want to waste my time on people who will stab me in the back repeatedly or take me for granted.
     
    It takes an active act of malice to cause me to hold any grudges. Otherwise I forgive easily, and eventually forget too if nothing major was an issue.

    But you have to actually manage to come off as malicious to bug me usually. Since I don't hold back when I'm actually thinking someone is being mean, you can usually tell. Forgiveness falls fast upon those who show no hostile intent. It's easy to misread people, so clearing the air quickly is a key to having it swiftly forgotten.
     
    I forgive, but I don't forget. Unless we have a conversation on what went wrong, I will hold grudges. I don't seek revenge or anything of the like.
     
    i have a tendency to hold grudges against people who i believe have wronged me and neither forgive nor forget. im petty lol
     
    It takes a lot for me to hold a grudge or seek revenge so I normally forgive, but not without forgetting.
     
    I hold grudges for way too long. I don't actively seek revenge but I don't forgive nor forget
     
    I forgive, as I've found that many situations where I am wronged are my fault one way or another. Even if I didn't do anything, I usually blame myself anyways which kind of sucks. Otherwise, I forgive anyways. I don't like holding grudges at all.
     
    I forgive pretty easily, because I think that life is too short to hold grudges, unless what they did literally is bad enough for me to just shut them out rather than forgiving. That rarely happens, though.
     
    Tbh I don't usually hold grudges for a long time, like I'll be annoyed at the person and won't forgive them for a couple of weeks or so, but after I've gotten over whatever it was I usually do forgive them.
     
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