i want pink hair so bad, but i've never had a chance to dye my hair bc of stupid arbitrary rules lmfao. my high school didn't allow it, and even if they did, my step dad was an asshole and was all like "you can't live under my roof if you dye your hair like that" ummmm what??? i am literally a minor i just want to dye my hair for fun????? jesus. and THEN after getting out of high school and under a different roof, i still couldn't dye my hair bc i worked at an upscale restaurant. then i worked at a country club. then i worked in retail that didn't allow it (manager didn't care but company policy yadda yadda). then i was out of college, but holding jobs that just never allowed for it. and it's still like that at age 28. i fucking hate it lmfao the hair dye isn't going to seep into my brain and cause me to be unable to perform my job...it's just such bullshit, same applies to tattoos and piercings like get the fuck over it some people want to look cool. honestly this kind of fucks with my self esteem bc rules bar me from having my hair how i want it so i just don't do anything to it. it's just brown and medium length and i don't style it, i just brush it and go. it's ugly and i have no lust for life, the man has drained me of personality xoxoxo
anyway, i bought a pink wig that i wear sometimes bc if i can't dye my hair i'll put on different hair, but considering the state of the world, that isn't often bc where am i gonna wear it to lol. the most i've ever gotten to do to my hair was dying it purple, however it barely looked purple. i didn't bleach my hair before i did it bc you know lol jobs and such, but it looked more like a dark auburn color than purple so i barely even count this.
sorry for the rant but this is really personal to me and has dictated way too much of my life tbh