My mom

My mom is always complaining about me, it is annoying I know. But, she complaining for good, she just want to correct my mistakes, bad habit, so I won't get ***ed up in future.

Well, just bare her complains. Listen to her why she said that, maybe she just want to advice you but not in a good way. Because overall, it is still your mom.

Show some respect to your mum. ;)
 
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She has every right to.
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It's its own topic, clearly (:

I think killer says wise things.

My mum was always very strict when I was a kid... My friends got what they wanted when they complained enough, but my mum had her rules set straight and was always very angry with me when I was late for her picking me up, or when I didn't clean my room, or when I did anything she had said beforehand that I wasn't allowed to do. As I grew up, I've come to appreciate that she did that. I was never a spoiled kid and now I think it's important to be able to be independent and not complain too much c:

Nowadays she is one of my best friends <3 But yeah, we fought constantly when I was a teenager. It's part of life. It gets better, as long as you try to understand why she does what she does now (:
 
My mom can be like that too... but because of her, I don't think I'd have the chance to do amazing things. You should really learn to cherish her because something could happen, and you might never see her again. There are also lots of people out there who have lost their mothers and would envy you for even having one.
 
This reminds me of how much my mother is a living nightmare to me as well. She like always gets pissed and complains at me for no reason, in fact her anger is one of the reasons that I often get too scared to do a lot of things.
 
i confronted my mom about something that has affected our relationship since forever. i never did before because i was scared of the reaction and that if things didn't change then i would just feel hopeless. but i finally did and now things are different for the better and it made me realize a lot of things
 
I have my days where I can be frustrated with my mother, feel she didn't treat me fairly, and we may disagree over many things. However, I also know she did many things for me which I appreciated very much so I do try to be as patient with her. Everyone else mentioned it's pretty normal we would feel like that with our parents especially if we're still living with them.
 
My mom would always go on and on with advice about how I should better my life. And as most people do they think they don't need to take any of that advice from their parents and just go on doing their own thing, which is what I did. I used to get so bored and annoyed when all my mom would talk to me about was what I should do to better myself. Now I take every piece of advice and try to see what I can do with it to help my life. It took me a long time to realize that I should be listening to everything she said and use it. I really wish I had realized this sooner though and not had been so stupid going into adulthood. Had I done even a quarter of what she told me I would be well off now and not struggling so hard to live.

Your mom might complain but it probably is for good reason. How about instead of thinking so negatively about it you should not do whatever it is she is complaining about. That way you and her don't have to deal with it. Point is take everything she says complaint or not as something that can benefit the person you will grow into. I guarantee if you have kids one day you will be sounding just like your mom does at some point.
 
I'm lucky. I have a really close and strong relationship with my mom. We share lots of interests and can actually hang out and have a ton of fun. She feels like a friend and not just a parent. It's great 8D
 
I really appreciate my mother for raising me. Unfortunely some of her desicions affected my mental wellbeing for life but she's my mother. I love her, but before I found it hard to say I love you to my mother for the longest time. After her battle with cancer, I'm really glad I still have her in my life. There's certain times where we disagree and this is what leads to complaining, but nobody's perfect as my Mom would say.
 
My mom pretty much dictates the mood of everyone in the family. If she is mad, everyone is mad. If she is happy, everyone is happy.

So she either makes everyone happy, or pisses everyone off. When she is angry, its really annoying to be around her.

But she is a great mom, but a little too helicopter mom- I have had to have a few serious talks with her (respectfully of course) to tell her she is being too controlling and to let me live a bit more free if you know what I mean.

But despite some of her quarks, we have a pretty good relationship and is really the only person I feel like I can trust the most.
 
my mother and I have had problems that will most likely never work out
she's been... questionable in her parenting style and a lot of things have happened that i don't really have any interest in resolving nowadays
we coexist fine enough but aside from that, we're not really gonna hold out for a reunion that involves hugging and tears and whatever
 
I have a good relationship with my mother. She raised me pretty much on her own because my father was pretty neglectful then.
I'm very lucky to have her and I cherish every moment with her ^^
 
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My mother really wasn't ready to take care of children at the time that she had them, which had a pretty negative effect on her character and parenting. It's only in recent years that I can say she's been a good mother, but we're trying to put the past behind us and resolve things, which I'm grateful for.
 
I never really knew my mum, as I remember, she was always laughing and having fun
and had a thick accent. I think I was her favourite out of us two boys.
I miss her, still she does things at her own pace.
no contact with her for years now.

I wouldn't call her annoying, nor does she annoy me.
more just chill as anything.
 
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My mom isn't very strict, in fact she is very chill and let's me do what I want for the most part. But she can get mad about weird things sometimes and overreact. We have a good relationship, but something she gets annoying by nagging me with the same points or not believing me about certain things. Mostly, she let's me do my own thing though.
 
My mother and I have a very...difficult relationship. I think the problem is that we're far too similar - we both complain a great deal about things that don't really need complaining about, and we're both stubborn (read: arrogant) enough to assume we're always right in arguments. We go out of the way to wind one another up sometimes with small things, and it's extremely effective. We don't listen to one another. We won't forgive one another for things we've said or done in the past. I could go on, but I'm sure you get the idea. Ours is the very definition of a love-hate relationship.

I reject this idea that criticism from parents is "for your own good" though. There is a fine, fine line between constructive criticism and being put-down, and when you're younger you don't necessarily appreciate the distinction. It has an impact on you growing up if you're constantly being criticized by your parents. No matter how you might behave. But then, I'm probably not in the best position to argue that, because I was an accident that turned out to be so disappointing that my parents felt the need to "try again" with another child. I suppose it depends on the parent.
 
I actually have a great relationship with my mother. But then again I'm a guy, a lot of us do. I just wanted to pop in and say no matter what you all think, your mother loves you. So. Much. Maybe things aren't always good but I guarantee when you need her, she'll be there. That's what a mother is. And if she isn't, she was never your mother.

Anyway, sapface out.
 
I've always had a good relationship with my mom. She and I don't even really fight nowadays (we did when I was an unreasonable little brat). Much like Castform my mom and I would say are pretty good friends on top of being son and mother. The funny part is a lot of people actually really like my mom too. She gave one of my my male friends advice on how to get in bed with the girl he likes.
 
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