(just logged in to speak my mind, i'll look at messages some other time. i just need to get some stuff off my chest....)
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I consider people with general dislike towards girly things to be bullies.
I don't like feeling that way, but those types of people used to pick on me and belittle me. A lot....
BUT!
I read, on some blogs today. That when people pick on you, its RARELY something personal towards YOU.
Its their own issues.
Maybe that'll help me have more compassion towards the girlyness 'haters'.... :) they aren't against me. They just have their own problems/confusions to work out....
I still REFUSE to ever like the kingdom hearts series again, though!!! i will NEVER forget the awful mental instabilities and fears and hopelessness feelings i had during my fandom of those games... :'( regardless of 'why' the fans felt they 'needed' to pick on me o_o;;;
Memories of a bad mental state continue to be hurtful memories no matter what you learn over time.
Its like the pretty cure always say to the 'villians' they face: I'll never forgive you!
And, well, a series that made you hate yourself and the world around you? You just....don't forgive that. You gotta be a Pretty Cure in that kind of situation :P yep....