What do you judge other people for?

Their weight. It's not just 'big bones'.

Their hygiene. What did you have for breakfast? Oh, toast and cereal? Could have fooled me, I thought you had **** cake going by the smell.

Their self respect. Cliche of if you don't respect yourself how do I respect you.

The way they walk. Do you have a turd in your pants? Cause you sure walk like you do.

Their taste in music, or lack there of.

Their attitude. Don't bring your garbage attitude to me. Suck it up, bear it, and smile. I'm an extremely hateful person, but you wouldn't know it because I don't let it affect others around me.

Their tattoos. A vagina on your neck? Really? Was that a good idea?

Their piercings (all over their face and their gauges).

The big one. How they talk, and how loud. I can't hear well due to-, so I want to hear you. If you're real quiet and soft spoken, I hate that you're trying to talk to me without trying to make me hear. I have to lean in to hear an already quiet person and it bugs me.

If you speak another language, and not the one I'm currently speaking, don't let me keep talking for two minutes making an ass out of myself. Just say in your own language that you don't speak it and can't understand me. Simple. Don't just wait and pretend not to hear me. I hate that.

Eye contact. I judge people that don't make eye contact. Cowards.
 
I tend to judge people based on their hygiene standards.

I work in a grocery store, so I see a huge variety of people. Some of them come strolling in wearing nice clothes with their shirt tucked in, some in just everyday clothes, and then there are... well... not those people.

The people I really judge are the people that come in wearing their PJ's, with their greasy hair, sweat stains under the armpits, and looking out of breath from the long walk from their car to the electric carts.

Do you remember when those carts were made for people with disabilities and not for people who are too fat to walk?
 
Hygiene is a major one. If I can smell you from beyond kicking distance, then there is a huge problem.

The way they treat others, especially wait staff at restaurants. I have called people out for mistreating servers and gave massive tips in their stead. They are people, too, damn it.

Weight when it is so obviously out of control. I don't mind overweight people. I don't mind low-end obesity. Whatever, you enjoy fried food and sweets, or you have a condition, but you care a little bit. That's cool. Just keep walking and eat a few more greens and I support you. But morbid obesity is an entirely different story. I feel no pity when you choose to eat an outrageously unhealthy diet and never exercise. What the **** do you expect? Stop moaning and act now, before you drown your relatives in medical bills.
 
I don't judge anyone for their appearance or life decisions.

I tend to judge people when they open their mouth and share their horrible opinion that nobody wants to hear.
 
My brother just turned 18 and he has a son now. I judge him for that.
My brothers and my father all smoke. I judge them for that.
My dad has a difficult time managing his money and expects me to pay his bills and complains if I don't. I judge him for that.
My brother steals things from people and then sells it for money to buy weed. I judge him for that.
My brother's friends do the same thing. I judge them for that as well.
My brother always sags his pants. I judge him for that.
My brother always wears a snapback. I judge him for that.
My brother doesn't have a job. I judge him for that.
My brother dropped out of high school. I judge him for that.
My brother asks me how to spell very easy words (I'm talking 4th grade level). I judge him for that.
My brother throws the "I love you" to his girlfriend very early on in his relationships. I judge him for that.
He gets offended and all pissy if she doesn't say it back. I judge him for that.
Did I mention that my dad complains a lot? I judge him for that.
One of my coworkers is always late. I judge her for that.
A lot of my coworkers don't really do much at work, and they have literally the easiest job ever. I judge them for that.
My sister just got into a relationship with someone at her school. It's no big deal, but she's in the sixth grade, and when I mentioned it to my dad literally a minute ago, he flipped out saying that she doesn't have a boyfriend in the most irritated, offended tone. I judge him for that.
Whenever one of my coworkers makes a mistake, he's visibly angry. I judge him for that.

I pretty much make judgements from everything that contradicts my perception of someone. They're mostly observational judgements, and very little resentment comes from it (there's only two from the examples above that I resent those people for), but they're still judgements.
 
There are a lot of meanies in this thread. I judge you all for being mean {XD}

I'm really not a judgmental person at all, but like everyone there are certain things I react poorly too. I tend not to think highly of parents who let their children behave poorly in public. It's the school holidays where I am, and going to University in the City is a bit of a nightmare with all the young children about. I was at a train station this past week with a child literally screaming at the top of his voice for no reason other than to amuse himself and the mother was just sitting by watching this child disturb dozens of people and didn't do a thing about it. I'm also not big on overly aggressive drivers. I just think it really takes a self centred attitude to drive aggressively and cutting other people off and whatnot just because you want to get home a couple of seconds earlier.

I guess a better way to put it is that I judge people harshly when I perceive them to be failing in a responsibility they have willingly taken on. When you have a child it is your responsibility to look after them and raise them to the best of your ability. When you start your car it is your responsibility to drive safely and not endanger other road users around you.

When it comes to things like what someone looks like or what music they like or they're other interests, I just think it's really lame to judge people harshly for those things. Or even judging people harshly for not being particularly intelligent. Everyone has different life experiences that make up who they are and of course that leads to all sorts of differences between people and instead of letting those differences driving a wedge between people I think it's good to embrace those differences, talk to different people and get new perspectives on life.
 
Vinny Vidi Vici said:
There are a lot of meanies in this thread. I judge you all for being mean.

When it comes to things like what someone looks like or what music they like or they're other interests, I just think it's really lame to judge people harshly for those things. Or even judging people harshly for not being particularly intelligent. Everyone has different life experiences that make up who they are and of course that leads to all sorts of differences between people and instead of letting those differences driving a wedge between people I think it's good to embrace those differences, talk to different people and get new perspectives on life.
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This. Judging others is all-around lame, especially when you do it not knowing their circumstances. For all you know they may not be particularly happy with their situation either, but regardless: Not. Your. (Expletive). Business. Get on with your own life and stop getting so worked up about the lives of others.
 
I judge people for bad fashion choices.
I judge people for ignorance.
I judge people that judge people for things they can't help. (PS: Ignorance CAN be helped.)
I judge people that claim they "don't need no man," but turn around and whine about wanting someone to sleep with every night. ?????
I judge people that spell the simplest words incorrectly.
 
I judge people for their Ignorance
I judge people who say they don't judge, then turn around and judge others... I judge hypocrites.
I judge people who choose to use people for their benefit
I judge the General public when I work
I judge u if u use txt tlk
I judge myself all the time, just for being how I am


That's it for now.
 
Hmm...well when people approach this topic, they often phrase judgements based off of what is within another person's control. Which is sort of goes off into the free will fallacy.

That said, I judge people as the product of their inherent nature and experiences.

I do judge people as far as measure their attractiveness, other physical features, race/ethnicity, religion, age, intellect, behaviors, career, interests, beliefs, and from a culmination of little pieces of evidence I decide how to slightly change how I approach them whether it's a colleague, stranger, friend, ect. Of course, most of this process of judgment, for all of us, involves unconscious decisions.
 
I would say I don't judge anyone , but clearly that's a bunch of bull I think we all judge people in some way.

Personally I judge people who are ignorant or mistreat/disrespect me cause if the first thing I know you for is something awful , mean, or uneducated/ignorant, then I'm gonna assume your not a nice person. Unless you try to convince me otherwise in a future conversation, you'll be mean to me. I judge people's personality based on the first time meeting them. Today at school I meet at school named Brianna ,and she was very hyper and jittery (and said several times she was about to pass out) and so my first impression of her is that she's a very scatterbrained, enthusiastic, and possibly on some sort of drug.She she's probably just a happy, talkative person.

I do sometimes judge people based on the clothes they wear too, but it's something I try to avoid. Though sometime I see someone wearing a really ugly shirt or pants/dress/skirt and I can't help but feel disgusted inside. And then I think them as an awful dresser.
 
Sodom said:
I judge people for getting married before age 27 and for having children regardless .
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I judge other people's opinions and beliefs.

What exactly do you judge about people who marry prior to 27? I was 23 when I got married. My parents and grandparents were younger when they married. Most people born before 1970 or 1980 would have married before the age of 27. Do you perceive the bulk of the population as less than you? That is just ridiculous.

Also, why do you hate children? I can understand judging people who have 5 or more (unless they had triplets or quadruplets, there is no reason for this), but any??
 
I judge people for their bad decision(I'm talking about big stuff, not petty things) and spouting ignorance. I can only judge someone for that. I feel bad if I judge people based on their appearance, choice of clothes, hairstyle/color.

I just think some people here are rather mean.

I just don't think it's ok to judge someone for having a different taste in music. For their hygiene, because the stinky kid you had in school probably didn't have the opportunity to shower. Also if a person likes their tatto/piercing and you don't how does that affect you? Just way too many petty reasons.. I mean saying someone who doesn't like eye contact is a coward is just really, really mean.

I'm gonna judge people who steal, steal to buy drugs. Kill and rape people. Going all Hitler. Oppress people. Things that just aren't (in my opinion) morally right.
 
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i judge ppl with sigs like urs!
 
I judge people that show a lack of compassion. Most everyone says they're compassionate, but then they'll do something that's hurtful to someone and that person will explain and instead of being compassionate and saying "oh, it's not a big deal for me to just stop doing that so I will", they argue about how the person shouldn't be hurt and it's not their fault and etc etc.

I also judge people close to me a lot more than generic traits. Like Nick's talk about not judging "people" for doing certain things, but his brother - if one person can't spell simple words, I won't judge them because I don't know their education or what kind of upbringing they had. But if a friend from my high school couldn't spell simple words, I would judge because I know they weren't struggling from poverty at home (private school) and that was a good school so they had the ability to learn, they just chose not to.
 
babaGAReeb said:
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i judge ppl with sigs like urs!
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You need to be permabanned, IMO.

I try not the judge, but sometimes when I'm out at the mall or I'm walking through town, I notice people wearing dirty clothes, or people who make it obvious that they haven't showered/bathed in a while, and I can't help but judge them. I'm not a snob, or anything, I just think if you're going to go out into a social area you should at least try and wear clothes without stains and rips all over them.
 
I judge people here who try so hard to troll but are incredibly horrible at it and just look ignorant.

I also judge people both in real life and online who act as if they are superior to everyone do to rank or financial status. The arrogance that some of these people have is really offsetting to me.
 
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