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Serious What is your Gender/Sexual Identity?

Taemin

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    UH
    This type of thing is what messed me up for years. LOL

    I've identified as male my whole life, but I'm also really attracted to guys, so that was weird. Feels pretty gay and it kinda mixed me up for a while, because I felt like I should like girls if I identified as male. However, I also can genuinely like girls. It's weird because I click well with girls for their personalities, and I think they're cute, but damned if I don't prefer to watch hot guys sing and dance for hours in my free time. oof.

    The end result is that I'm a pansexual trans-guy, and I don't like saying trans, I've just always been a guy as far as I'm concerned /shrugs - but I GUESS TECHNICALLY.
     

    Miss Wendighost

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  • Cisgender female and Straight ally. Even though I'm not gay, trans, or anything like that, I still care for people who are since they deserve as much respect and kindness as anyone else.
     

    starseed galaxy auticorn

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  • I'm a cisgender female. I'm also bi, but I'm asexual and aromantic. I'm not really interested in love... but I have experienced it before finding out about being aromantic. I'm not really against it. I just feel like other factors get in the way for me right now. Like, my routine or just being forgetful about having a partner or whatever. I was like that a lot with my last bf. I often forgot I had him, and that's what made me realize that maybe I'm just not interested in being with someone at this very moment.
     

    _pheebee

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  • I am a transgender female, lesbian.

    I've been on HRT for roughly a year and a half.
    So far not much is changed, so i'm considering asking my Gender Specialist for something stronger, but I'm also very nervous to ask.
     
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    Cisfemale and for sake of simplification im bisexual. Though id say more im biromantic but asexual bc im emotionally attracted to people but not sexually by any means.
     
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  • I'm a bisexual cis woman.

    I get tripped up by the Kinsley scale because I've never really taken the time to think about if I favor men or women more? I guess it doesn't matter if I'm 2, 3, or 4, I'm bi regardless.
     
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    Cisfemale. I'm like... a 5.999999 on Kinsley. I am predominantly sexually and romantically attracted to women. I just.. happened to accidentally find my soulmate in a hetero cis man??? And it gets complicated for me since, like, is that even being gay at all? Is that even bi? Maybe I'm pan because gender has never been a barrier for potential romantic attraction? Or just straight cause I'm getting married and who tf cares anyway? Ugh. It's frustrating and I often feel pretty invalidated by people around me irl. :(

    If outward relationship status didn't mean anything, I am 100% lesbian and that includes anyone who identifies as female. Does that make sense?
     

    Taemin

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    It took me days after my original post to really pick a scale number.

    I suppose I'm a 4, because most days I'm more into guys than girls, but also sometimes girls can be super attractive.

    I go back and forth, but because of how much attention I give to guys and not girls on a daily basis, I'll stick with 4. lol
     
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    Straight cis female, 0

    I've always been attracted to men with traditionally masculine characteristics, physically and behaviourally
     

    Ivysaur

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  • Cis male, a 2 in the scale. I'm far more romantically attracted to females but my first actual high school flirt was a male and I don't really have any sexual preferences, anything works for me tbh.

    I know this may sound cliche but I really do care more about personality and nerdiness than the gender in question. I guess I am more strict in which kind of men I find hot compared to women but that's not my main concern anyway, so...
     
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    Salzorrah

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  • Hello, I am non-binary, and for the most part I accept referring to me in all the pronouns tbh, but in order of preference from most preferred to least preferred, its she/they/he.

    As for sexual preference, it's weird coz I'm actually open to both but for males, I prefer a specific subset, and if they really don't fit my type, then nah I'll pass, but for females, I'm much more available to them.

    When it comes to romantic preference tho, I don't have any interest in men at all tbh, and I feel more of a connection with women in general. However, a nice personality and geek factor has a lot of impact in this sector tbh so yea.
     
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