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What is your sexuality?

Sirfetch’d

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    This was such a successful thread last time it was made by Aerial Ace iirc, so I decided why not bring it up again and get new thoughts on it. So what is your sexuality? What is your opinion of the topic in general/
     
    I am fully heterosexual, i'm attracted to women and have never once been even remotely tempted to do anything sexual with men.

    My thoughts on sexuality in general? Apathetic. I really don't care what other people's sexualities are.
     
    I'm pansexual, so I can fall in love with anybody: straight, gay, asexual, trans, etc. I can fall in love with the born sex, boy or girl, and the social construct of gender. I can also become attracted to looks or personality. :) I can't imagine only liking a specific gender though, they're all awesome to look at imo :D
     
    I'm homosexual and I have been out for 5 years. The whole concept of "coming out" frustrates me- even though I did it myself, I don't think it's needed. Personally, I would never let sexuality of someone cloud my judgement of someone because there's just no need for that.
     
    I am straight, but often times I do consider myself bi-curious. I don't have anything against anyone being gay or bi either. To me, love has no boundaries unless of course your thirteen and dating someone who's over twenty though.
     
    Since I can remember (all throughout my childhood), I've had crushes on both boys and girls, but I didn't come to the realization of my bisexuality until I was about 15. One day in the past month I said to myself, "If literal gender is irrelevant, why should any notion of gender matter?" and now I'm a pansexual with a wonderful partner that fits right in with that. I'm rather proud of my sexuality, too: "I can like anyone and how do you like that!?". Makes me feel set aside, so to speak. ;)


    I will go ahead and be honest, that homosexuality at a distance bothers me a bit, but up close I really enjoy it. :p
     
    I get the sense that some people confuse sexuality with romantic attraction.

    I believe I - and anyone, for that matter - can have a romantic attraction to anyone. But I also believe that sexuality is important, because I believe, in a relationship, sharing each other sexually is important, so sexuality is important to me. We are a sexually driven society, so most of us close ourselves off to the notion of falling in love with anyone but the people we are sexually attracted to. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but it still is something that I don't think should be happening.

    I think both sexes are attractive, but I've only ever been sexually attracted to women. Though I'm not at all closed off to the idea of having a sexual encounter with a man, it isn't something I can see myself doing.
     
    Honestly? I'm not really sure what I am. :( I don't want to come off as insensitive, but when there's so many different terms for identification, it makes the road to reconciliation complicated and hard to navigate. When the reality is, I feel like I change orientation when presented with a new person every time. But when I finally settle on a term that, I feel, defines what my physical/emotional feelings are; it turns out that I actually qualify best for a different one. And I don't even really care about the label in the first place.
     
    I'm bisexual. I don't really have a particular preference either way, but I do have very different criteria for what I find attractive in a man, and what I find attractive in a woman.
     
    Bi-Curious.

    If that's the correct thing to say.
    Basically, I have a girlfriend, she is bisexual too, she's had an experience both ways.
    I haven't, but would like too.
     
    I'm demisexual. I am only sexually attracted to who I'm involved with. I also only involve myself with men. I have no interest in women for any reason.
     
    I'm heterosexual, considering that I'm definitely into women. Sometimes I do question whether or not I'm truly heterosexual or not, because I've been single for some time and just not interested in a relationship at the moment.. however at the same time, I don't want to "open up" because my parents could eventually get angry with me at the same time. However, I do feel that I am still heterosexual despite thoughts of being unsure.
     
    I'm not a very sexually driven person at all, but I am unambiguously attracted only to females. It's hard to explain unless you're familiar with the terminology, but I'd say I straddle the line between asexuality, demisexuality, and heterosexuality.

    I don't see a pretty girl and think like, "I wanna have sex with her," but rather more like, "I wanna hold her and never let go." When I do have sex, it's more for my partner's benefit than my own (although it is still fun on my end). XD
     
    I'm a non binary individual aka I don't like anyone aka I'm sometimes bullied aka you have to refer to me as Xe aka I love "aka" aka I lack a life.
     
    I think last time this thread was up I said I was panromantic asexual? But it's kinda fluid isn't it. I think I'm more panromantic demisexual at this point. But aside from the ocassional self-assessment I really do not care about sexuality. I kind of just assume people aren't sexual or don't have a preference until proven otherwise. I don't talk about sex or sexuality much because I don't care and I don't talk about how hot people are because I don't really see that very well. So it really just doesn't come up unless someone decides to tell me directly.
    I guess I just don't see sexuality as a defining trait so like. It's not something I need to know.
     
    I'm boring. I'm an aromantic asexual. I'm not attracted to anyone sexually, and I don't have any romantic attraction to anyone. There's no one out there in the world that I want to be in a relationship with, as I'm much happier being single. I can't see myself in any sort of relationship, and sexual attraction to anyone is just something I don't experience.

    As for sexuality in general, whatever. I don't care at all what someone else identifies as. It is what it is.
     
    man... kids these days. I remember when there was only 2 answers to this question
     
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