Being the center of attention.

MarinaSpeaks

MarinaSpeaks

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    So PC, how well do you deal with being the center of attention? Does it make you uncomfortable? Do you enjoy it?

    When I was little I had low self esteem, so naturally I didn't want to be center of attention. :P I believed I wasn't good enough at anything. I used to perform on stage in school during spelling bees, plays, talent shows etc; not because I really wanted to, but because people wanted me to. I was pretty shy and didn't enjoy being up there but it wasn't too bad. I felt like I couldn't afford to make any mistakes, so I had to be extra careful and meticulous. I felt the same during my birthday parties, and would roll my eyes and think "Oh god" when people starting congratulating me.

    Lately it doesn't bug me so much. My self esteem is healthy now, so I don't mind the attention. I don't crave attention, but as long as I make myself look nice to the public and don't act in a way that draws unusual attention to myself, I don't get annoyed by attention so much anymore. I'm a pretty quiet and reserved person, but there are definitely times where I do something expecting attention like when I offer people free gifts in public or do public surveys. I've also worked jobs where I had no choice in the matter, so that certainly helped me to break some of my shyness. :)
     
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    I won't lie, I kind of enjoy it. Lol. Only sometimes though, it gets exhausting having all eyes on you for too long, especially when people have expectations. Getting attention is nice, but I usually try to be modest.
     
    I think it depends on the situation. I don't mind being the centre of attention if it's a product of my own doing. I'm not a fan of when another person's words or actions put me int he centre of attention.

    I remember one time in class we were discussing abortion, a heavy handed topic I didn't want to get involved with that day. My friend, during the course of giving an answer, mentioned my views on abortion and how they were different to his. With everyone looking for some type of response I couldn't really sit and not say anything. It's situations like that I'm not a fan of. I prefer putting myself int he centre of attention if the situation is right.
     
    i always hated people looking at me and being the only child in my family that means i got looked at a lot and got plenty of attention
    HATED IT
    i still hate it
     
    It really depends. There are times when it can make me uncomfortable, especially if there are other people around me. If it's just a few people... than it doesn't really bother me much.
     
    It used to bother me quite a bit, but I have since gotten over it. I don't actively try to become of the centre of attention(at least in real life lol), but if it happens I'm usually fine. However due to my positions in politics and religion it can be easy for me to stand out in some circles. xD
     
    I tend to get sort of rambling when I end up being the center of attention these days. Used to handle it better lol. I prefer to be the center of somebody's attention on the sidelines rather than in the middle of everything, I think.
     
    I think I deal with it pretty well, unless if it's negative (Notice, it's negative 100% of the time)
    I mean, I'm an actor, and although I'm not the best, I handle myself pretty well. I like being the center, but definitely not for too long. That gets tiring.
     
    I don't care much for being in the spotlight tbh. It happens from time to time at work and it annoys the hell out of me. I'm a reserved person by nature and like people around me to be a little reserved with their attention.
     
    I always prefer to not stick out. The only time I enjoy it is when I'm with a group of friends, and it's also easier to handle attention online.
     
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    I get a little (or a lot) nervous, but sometimes I enjoy being the center of attention for some reason.
     
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    Sometimes I do, but I'm mostly nervous throughout. It's usually dependent on context.
     
    I get scared as hell, I don't like too many people noticing me.
     
    When I was younger I loved it and always wanted to be the center of attention, but I remember around the time I turned 15 I just caved into myself and never wanted to be noticed. I think currently I have a much healthier attitude towards being the center where I don't mind it in some situations but i generally like to keep to myself
     
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