Joined the Marriland forum prior to this community (as far as Pokemon, anyways). Left when they went full Discord. Checked out before then, more or less.
Had a bad experience with trading there. Cannot recall ever getting such a nasty vibe from someone, online or in real life. Waited for over an hour to try to give them a Pokemon. Spent the entire time organizing their boxes, supposedly. Threw a fit about not wanting a hacked Pokemon. (Grabbed the egg. Saved. Hatched it to check its ability. Reset. Interpreted this as hacking somehow.) May have also lied at some point?
Reported the conversation. Responded that since no rule was broken, nothing would be done. (Agreed on not explicit rules being broken, in their defense. Reported it before the sexism started.) Blocked the person in question (an online first). Still felt very alone there.
_____
On other social media: Uses very little. Checks Twitter trending topics, viral Imgur posts, and the odd Reddit thread occasionally. Posted on none of those in years. Created a Facebook account ages ago, as a recommendation from a sibling. Bailed on that quickly.