sorry no, we can't be friends

[Sandslash Fan]

I don't make friends with people who can't think for themselves. It's draining to hear people like that recite the expectations of society over and over again.

It's a little presumptuous, but I often cross someone off of the list if the first thing they ask me is whether I've seen "the game" or making an inquiry about my "favorite team". Sports are great when you are the one playing them, but I will never be one of those people that puts my sense of self-fulfillment into the hands someone else.

 

[Goo]

People who do not share some of the bigger values I have, such as dresscode. Also I avoid sexists, racists and people who are overly lewd. I'm looking for intelligent friends; not ignorant dumdums.

:)

I think you can be overly lewd and still be intelligent. I'll keep making my chemistry puns right along side my horribly salacious playful innuendo.

I cant stand unreliable people. If you say something, you should back it up with action.

 

[Poki]

Ignorant, illiterate, selfish ♥♥♥♥wads who lack a sense of humour.

 

[Arma]

Narrow-minded people, I usually can't stand people who judge everyone who got different styles/tastes/opinions than them.

but I'm not surprised about that really
looking at what all the other people here don't like it seems I'm everybodies' nemesis over here

Somehow I'm getting that feeling from this thread too. XD

 

[Belldandy]

I think you can be overly lewd and still be intelligent. I'll keep making my chemistry puns right along side my horribly salacious playful innuendo.

I cant stand unreliable people. If you say something, you should back it up with action.

By lewd, I meant more like always talking about sex, what they do sexually, what they want to do, using offensive language to describe acts, etc. Things like telling me how you did x to a girl, and if youre outside seeing a woman or guy and telling me what you would do them even though you don't know them. It's not only lewd but it's objectification, too, which also falls a little under sexism.

So really, more like sexual lewdness. It's really inappropriate and crude.

Also, people who are into illicit drugs. Forgot about that :P 100% avoidance.

 

[Bellsprout]

A mooch. As soon as I discover your moochy ways our hanging out comes to a hault.

 

[Livewire]

People who are fake or facetious in the company they keep, the people that hang out with the people they do only because they feel more important or higher up on the imaginary social hierarchy ladder. You're much better served being genuine. Also, sycophants are a major turn off too.

 

[Nick]

If you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, we're not going to be friends. That's an immediate turn off. My friendships are all premeditated. I don't have a single friend who I didn't see beforehand and say to myself "I'm going to be friends with that one right there." And if you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, it reminds me of my brother, who's a little thug, and turns me off to any prospects of wanting to be your friend.

I don't give a crap about someone's personality if I don't like their image.

 

[Oddisee]

If you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, we're not going to be friends. That's an immediate turn off. My friendships are all premeditated. I don't have a single friend who I didn't see beforehand and say to myself "I'm going to be friends with that one right there." And if you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, it reminds me of my brother, who's a little thug, and turns me off to any prospects of wanting to be your friend.

I don't give a crap about someone's personality if I don't like their image.

That is very open-minded.


There's beauty in all. And then you get to know the ♥♥♥♥ underneath. It is the ♥♥♥♥s you accept who become your best friends.

 

[Rabby]

People who are ignorant, annoying, selfish, self-centered, are mostly the people I do not want to be friends with. What is the point of being friends to someome who only wants to use you in some way o_O?

 

[Kanzler]

If you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, we're not going to be friends. That's an immediate turn off. My friendships are all premeditated. I don't have a single friend who I didn't see beforehand and say to myself "I'm going to be friends with that one right there." And if you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, it reminds me of my brother, who's a little thug, and turns me off to any prospects of wanting to be your friend.

I don't give a crap about someone's personality if I don't like their image.

I decided to sag my pants today :D Not a hat person though...

 

[mangamusicfan]

People who think they Are god himself!

 

[Raine]

Many of the responses that have already been posted apply to my personal "checklist" in potential friends. I like to think that the majority of times, I generally have a good sense of first impressions where I'm right about someone's character even before getting to know them. Others might think that I'm being close-minded, but actually I do give people the benefit of the doubt and disregard my initial impression of them if I give them the chance. Even without their personality, just the whole aura and vibe that they present themselves can say a significant amount about their character. But generally, the individuals who are self-centered, conceited and one specific opinion on everything irks me. By one opinion I mean those who cannot be swayed and believe they are right.

 

[Sir Codin]

Most of the things people have already said are on my personal checklist as well, but thinking of me as stupid or ignorant for holding a different opinion than you is one of my biggest turn-offs.

Advocating child sexual abuse is also another way of ensuring I will never be your friend and after I've called the police, chances are you won't want to be mine either.

 

[Phantom1]

Anyone who's a bible thumper, homophobic, uses illegal substances or is mean to people/abusive I won't even associate with.

 

[Raine]

If you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, we're not going to be friends. That's an immediate turn off. My friendships are all premeditated. I don't have a single friend who I didn't see beforehand and say to myself "I'm going to be friends with that one right there." And if you walk around with your pants sagging and a flat bill hat on, it reminds me of my brother, who's a little thug, and turns me off to any prospects of wanting to be your friend.

I don't give a crap about someone's personality if I don't like their image.

Eh, I can agree with the pants sagging thing because that's a major turn off for me. Like, what's the point of wearing pants at all then if you're going to let it droop down to your knees? >>;; No offense to anybody who does that here, but it's just personal preference and because of how conservative I am in terms of dress...

People who are ignorant, annoying, selfish, self-centered, are mostly the people I do not want to be friends with. What is the point of being friends to someome who only wants to use you in some way o_O?

Well, not everyone who's self-centered have ulterior motives where they befriend people simply for the sake of getting something in return. I'm the same. Those kinds of people are slightly on the annoying side, for me, simply because conversations seem one sided and I get tired of having to help with their issues and stuff after a while \: My tolerance and kindness only goes so far until I start treating people to the silent treatment.

It doesn't automatically tic somebody off but online it's hard if you're a guy. I mostly get along with Females in real life so I don't go out of my way to befriend guys online. I tend to just get along with females better so I talk to them more.

Ah, I'm similar in the aspect that I tend to have significantly more male friends than female ones; ratio's probably like 10:1 XD Mainly because even though I have the physical appearance of a female and the mindset of one, I can still relate to the opposite gender. Many of my hobbies and interests would probably be within the realm of guys' instead of girls. If I was given the choice to stay at home, playing video games and going to the mall shopping, talking about boys, it's a no brainer, I'd much rather hermit at home.

 

[Pendraflare]

I don't like to break it off with people, but there are some specific things that REALLY cross the line with me. Namely trying to insult my intelligence, or purposely trolling me and never caring.

 

[Khilia]

I still don't have found a thing that instantly strikes potential friends off my list of potential friends
...yet just today someone ended the friendship with me because I'm seemingly just boring
:/

 

[Dreg]

Attitude is high on my list for this, and also looks can come into play as well. If they act like a D-Bag and aren't trustworthy, than I don't wanna even consider being friends with them. Even the way that some people speak can make me think twice whether I should be friends with them or not.

 

[Sopheria]

People who are excessively rude or snarky for no reason. I know that a lot of times people don't mean anything by it, but it still shows a serious lack of social skills, so I'm not interested.

Also, people who act too "familiar" with me when we don't know each other that well. For example, jokingly poking fun at me about stuff the way that friends would generally do, even though we're not friends. It's not that I'm insulted by it, so much as it is I'm turned off by the fact that you've unilaterally decided that we're close enough for that. I once had an acquaintance not-so-subtly come on to me with a rather distasteful joke. When I called him out on it he said "Oh, well we're pretty close so I thought it'd be okay". We weren't actually that close -_- That right there is a one way ticket to "Sorry, we can't be friends"-ville.