Blahh, nooo, I don't like group work ;___; Soo many awful experiences in high school, and it really doesn't help that I'm shy. This is pretty much what always happens:
-I join a group.
-Everyone else talks to each other; I am ignored and too shy to speak up.
-They come up with their own plan and tell me what to do.
-I agree because arguing with them is seriously the last thing I want to do.
-We do it.
I hate that I'm so shy, because I often do have strong opinions for or against what my group is doing, I just don't want to express them because I find it better to just sit quiet and do what they say to avoid complications. In the rare occasion that they actually ask for my input (I swear this has only happened like once or twice total), I might share an opinion, but something very safe so I don't get dirty looks and they can keep on doing what they're doing.
In high school, I had a huge project to do and we got to choose our partners so well, me being shy I just paired up with my only friend. This was a huge mistake because well, it kinda just fell on me to do all the work, which ended up in me getting really overwhelmed and I had a bit of a breakdown, causing the project to not get done in time and my friend actually cried in class, saying that I "wasn't doing my part" and ultimately getting everyone to hate me. Then later her other friend said she would have liked to be in a group with her, to which my friend responded "No way, I don't want to be stuck doing all the work!"
So yeah, just let me work alone, please. ; - ; I hate relying on other people. I wish I didn't, but I do... I'd just really rather take responsibility for exactly what I did or didn't do, and not have to deal with either taking all the work because everyone else is lazy or being too shy to do anything at all. It's just skewed. bleh.