would you marry someone who already has kids

[Sirfetch’d]

this is a lot for some people to take in so just curious

 

[Limey-chan]

No. God no.

Honestly, it scares me when current GF talks about having kids when we've only been seeing eachother for a month. I really can't see myself being a dad. Certainly not a good one, anyway :/

 

[blue]

unless i was totally besotted by the person then i doubt i would. i don't even want kids myself just yet, i need to meet someone first.

 

[pkmin3033]

I doubt I'd even enter a relationship with someone who had kids, never mind getting married. Having children is not something I ever seriously imagined myself doing and, if I were to do that, it would be something I would want to have a say in with my partner, not be something I would have to adjust to from the get-go.

 

[gimmepie]

I love kids so fine with me.

 

[Corrin]

I would not mind being a step parent.

 

[aurevesque]

Do we have the same parenting policies? Who gets primary custody of the children? I would try not to be shallow enough to pass up meeting a great person because life didn't go ideally for them.
But, if we had different disciplinary ideas and what children were allowed to have it would be a different story.

 

[pastelspectre]

it depends i guess. maybe not now but when i'm older, maybe. i'd have to think about it..

 

[HamtaroTumin]

Damn! I am out of this thread. Probably 50% in both cases of marriage(with kids or not with kids)

I can't describe my english

 

[Cay]

if ron swanson can do it so can i

 

[Mawa]

I think yes?

Because I kinda want a family later.... But I don't want to have kids??
If I could get an operation to not have kids, never, I would. I am terrified of pregnant woman (it's true. My legs becomes week when I see someone pregnant. Just thinking about it and I stick my belly inside and feel just weird in my body)

Anyway. I kinda want a family, maybe, but I don't see myself having one. So why not having one who's already in this world?

 

[Radiating]

Nope

I'm pretty sure they would hate me and I would have to pay them money in some way.

 

[Jessie]

No, I don't even want kids of my own, much less someone else's. I'm just not that great with kids anyway.

 

[smocks]

it is a lot to take in & i guess it depends what they're like + how old the kids are

 

[MadHatter62]

Highly unlikely. It depends on the circumstances, how the kids behave, if the mother in question is someone I really like that much, ect...

 

[Her]

i'm more open to this idea than having my own children tbh

 

[Desert Stream~]

I am never getting married, and I am never NEVER EVER having kids, as I hate them and everything to do with them.
So no.

 

[Esper]

Like, if they weren't babies, or toddlers, or preschoolers, or gradeschoolers, or preteens, or tweens. Basically they'd have to be at least teenagers and more or less independent. I don't like kids and don't want to raise any.

 

[Bay]

Since I have a condition where I'm unlikely able to have children, I might be open to this. However, I don't know how I can handle if my significant other's kid is in their teens unless I myself is much older.

 

[Nihilego]

i'd much much much rather have my own kids

but, if circumstances meant that hadn't happened and wasn't going to happen, then yeah definitely. that'd be at least preferable for me over someone who didn't have kids, but as i say, i'd much rather my own kids

...not that i'd tell my hypothetical stepchildren that