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openness about sex

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    do you find it easy to talk about sex/sexuality and relevant topics under that umbrella? how open are you with your own activities or desires? at what point do you decide 'you know what? this is sure not for me!'
     

    tokyodrift

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    not really. the only person i really talk about sex with it my bestfriends, anyone else it's completely awkward imo, well aside from your partner. in terms of sexuality i think it's completely different for me, since i really don't mind discussing it with anyone but i do think there is some kind of fine line where it gets uncomfortable.
     

    Lemonski

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    I honestly don't like to talk about sex which is why I don't usually discuss it with people, at least not without feeling weird afterwards. Sometimes I've discussed things related to sex with my friends but they have such different views that it starts to feel like we're not even talking about the same thing.
    Sexuality on the other hand is a subject I can talk about more openly, but still not with absolutely anyone. For me, knowing that I'm not straight is an important thing to know about me so I usually try to let a new person know about it as soon as possible. This sounds especially weird because my parents still don't know.
     
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    I have 0 problems talking about sex. Love it, and talking about it. That said, its personal, so I don't go past generic things (or me specific things) with most people out of respect for intimacy with my partner. Occasionally however I do get a little shy about my desires when talking to my partner about them.
     

    Logan

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    I have 0 problems talking about sex. Love it, and talking about it. That said, its personal, so I don't go past generic things (or me specific things) with most people out of respect for intimacy with my partner. Occasionally however I do get a little shy about my desires when talking to my partner about them.
    Pretty much the same for me.
     

    Aquacorde

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    im like 40% open about my own sex life and 90% comfortable abt talking abt all that kind of stuff but yknow. depends on who im talking to.
     
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    I get embarrassed pretty easily so I usually try to avoid things like that in public, however through text or something I don't mind at all
     
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    Sexuality is a really interesting topic to talk about and I probably get more enthusiastic and curious than I should tbh. It's just a really curious thing because so much of our lives come down to it without us even realising.

    Sex I'm pretty much okay with anything really as well. Sex talk doesn't bother me at all although when you brag to me about sexual exploits like I'm supposed to hand you a medal or something I just feel bad for the person your sleeping with and would rather you shut up.
     

    Gabri

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    No major issue talking about sex to my closest friends. But to anyone else I am particularly shy about it. And especially towards family.
     

    Meganium

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    Well, I have friends who are open about it, and while I'm perfectly fine about it, anything that intimately happens between myself and my partner stays between us as I'm not too comfortable.
     

    Nah

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    I'm not really uncomfortable talking about it, but I never really tend to either as the few people around me don't really ever do, and it's kinda hard to talk about it much when you've never done it either.
     
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    I get a bit uncomfortable talking about things that are personal or private - secrets or other things that seem like they aren't my business to talk about - but aside from that I don't mind. Nothing about it really fazes me, though I'm not usually one to bring up the subject first and I'll sometimes just keep my own thoughts and feelings and desires to myself.
     
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    so everyone, how's your sex life?

    My girlfriend was sick since Christmas time, but she's nearly fully recovered. During that time, nothing was going on. We got some time the past two days to be intimate and it was pretty good. Definitely up there. I'm pretty sexually fulfilled.
     
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