Speaking of the title... I'm reminded of an instance in high school in which I was experimenting with style, and wore a cute little shirt I bought from ASOS from the men's section. The neckline had a very low, broad hem (in the manner of a more feminine style, admittedly, but who honestly cares?) A boy at my high school didn't necessarily mean to insult it or me I don't think, but he absolutely did both when he asked, "isn't that a girl's shirt?" And that shirt was never worn again in the halls of that school. I have since made it into a crop top and have worn it a small handful of times, but only out to clubs where I know I won't be judged. And this is all completely subconscious; wearing it in public otherwise isn't an option because something nudges me in the gut and tells me I'll get called out again for some reason.
So for that reason, I try to be relatively reserved in my unprovoked vocal assessments of other people. You never know how yours words will affect someone.