Don't ask me how my day was.

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    Are there any questions that you just hate to be asked and responding to them makes you really upset?
     
    What did you do today? It just makes me mad because I rarely ever do anything that you can see in the real world and it just makes me sound like a loser :)
     
    "Why did you and Angel break up?"
    "Did you really rape Angel?"
    "You and Angel broke up on bad terms right?"
    "Has Angel messaged you lately?"
    "Angel Angel Angel Angel."
    Sick and tired of this. It's been done for almost 2 years now and she always brings it up to someone and then everyone starts spamming me with messages that they all already know the answer to and then I just get really upset and reply angrily.
     
    "Are you named after River Phoenix?"
    "Do you know who River Phoenix is?"
    What's your middle name? Lake!"
    Completely irrelevant to these rather annoying ones.
    Mom or Dad: "Did you learn anything at school today?"
    For whatever reason, everytime I was ever asked this, I always blanked out and just said no.
     
    Up until yesterday, there were a couple friends who kept hounding me about when I was going to confess my feelings to my crush. Not only did it annoy me because the answer was the same, but also, it felt like an unnecessary amount of pressure was being put on my shoulders since I've been postponing doing so for the past month. It's not my fault that he's always going to be in a different city than me from now on! D: Regarding my parents though, I hate being asked, "Are you hungry yet?" I will tell you when I'm hungry people -.- There's no need to constantly holler, telling me to eat, and that I should eat more because I've lost weight.
     
    "Do you play basketball?"
    "You're so tall, why don't you play basketball?"
    This question really irks me. Basketball is one of the few sports I'm not really into. I would've tolerated it a bit more if everyone I know would stop talking about basketball for once, because it's really popular in my country to the point where they almost ignore any other sport.
     
    Sour as I seem, I don't like being asked "how are you?" because my answer to that is always the same. I hardly have anything to reply with other than "same old" or "same as usual". If something happens, I'll tell you! I promise!

    It doesn't make me angry or upset or anything, just something I'm not particularly fond of, haha.
     
    It seems that my boyfriend and my mom are always asking me what I'm doing when they clearly see what I'm doing or are about to do. It's super tiresome when you move from one room to another and vice versa.
     
    Tbh, the question 'is something bothering you?' has always been a question that I never liked.

    I know it's usually just showing someone cares but I'd tell someone first if something was honestly bugging me. Also the question of 'how are you' just honestly makes me feel pretty lazy and unproductive. I always answer with 'good' out of instinct and never expand on it. I mean, nothing interesting ever happens so what is there to talk about? XD
     
    Vanille Sky said:
    Regarding my parents though, I hate being asked, "Are you hungry yet?" I will tell you when I'm hungry people -.- There's no need to constantly holler, telling me to eat, and that I should eat more because I've lost weight.
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    Your parents sound like my boyfriend.
    I've lost weight, too, and he's constantly asking me if I'm ready for more food. I'm not a goose, we're not making paté, please stop. D:

    Also on my list:
    "How did you sleep?"
    "How are you feeling/doing?"
    "When are you gonna make cookies?" Dad, stop it. Boyfriend, stop it. Everyone just stop it.
    And I hate hearing and responding to, "How old are you?" or getting asked to pull out my ID every time I buy a game. God damn it, just stop it. I should be capable of buying M-rated games without my ID, I AM OLDER THAN YOU.
     
    "Do you have any ID?" uhasdfdsafgdshfasdsfhgdfffff

    I also hate telling my parents anything at all about work/relationships/anything of any importance, because the next time I speak to them it's like the Spanish inquisition. They make a ridiculously big deal out of the slightest things.
     
    "HOW WAS WORK!???" "HOW WAS SCHOOL!?!?!"

    Makes me want to slam my head into a door. IT WAS ♥♥♥♥♥♥ THANK YOU, WHY WOULD IT EVER BE ANYTHING ELSE???

    The series of "what are you going to do with your life" set of questions also drive me insane. "what do you want to go to school for?" "What are you thinking of doing?" What are your interests?" "What kind of job do you want in the future?" I DON'T KNOW. IF I KNEW I WOULD BE DOING IT.
     
    The most common question I get asked is "what's wrong? " it normally irks me because there's nothing wrong at all, and I'm just minding my own business
     
    "What did you do during holidays?"
    "Oh, well, I studied a little Japanese. I'm trying to expand my vocabulary"
    "Ehhhh? Why would you even to do that.."

    Because I freakin like it, ok?
    And this applies not only on Japanese, but on pastry and other stuff I'm into. :/
     
    Sgt.Dustmop said:
    Your parents sound like my boyfriend.
    I've lost weight, too, and he's constantly asking me if I'm ready for more food. I'm not a goose, we're not making paté, please stop. D:
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    Yeah! And it's not like I've lost a significant amount of weight because I wasn't obese or anything; I just worked out to get leaner for badminton, and apparently it's a cause for concern >>;;

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    Vanille Sky said:
    Yeah! And it's not like I've lost a significant amount of weight because I wasn't obese or anything; I just worked out to get leaner for badminton, and apparently it's a cause for concern >>;;

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    I am definitely in a similar boat, but your case is.. omigosh. Don't they realize that you more than likely lost weight in a smart or informed way.. I mean, seeing as you were doing it for a SPORT. xD
    Similarly, I was already small and didn't lose much. I might have lost 5-7 pounds because it's hot and I don't want to eat as much. But this is also a huge issue to him.

    As far as loved ones are concerned, you and I are both dying from that severe weight loss.
     
    I don't have any questions like that that I don't really like. Though reading through this thread, I do relate to some of them. "How are you?" Usually indifferent. "What did you do today?" Usually nothing. "How was your day?" Nothing special. When I linger over my answers for those questions, it makes me sad. I think that's why, when I do something that I don't do every day, I tend to enjoy it more than other people I'm with.
     
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