....Have you no shame?

Crux

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    What are some major personality flaws you have, that you don't mind owning up to?
    Do you have any?
     
    I'm a bit naive. I'm stubborn apparently, too, but I don't see it.

    Also, though I don't consider this "flawed," I don't immediately stand up for myself; I wait until it becomes an actual problem before I bark. And even when I do, people tell me I'm not "hard" enough on the individual.

    I'm also probably too patient for my own good.
     
    I've got a bit of a god complex. I think very highly of myself - much higher than I could ever hope to actually achieve. When I fail at something, I don't accept that I wasn't good enough and I just make excuses because I know that I can do it because I'm the best around and nothing's gonna ever bring me down.
     
    Hmm...

    I'm terrible if a social situation arises in an unfamiliar environment.
    I'm much more outgoing online than in real life.
    I'm quite arrogant really, I tend to think of myself as better than I am.
    So I'm also a hypocrite because I'm an advocate of equality.
    I'm a perfectionist to extreme levels about things I care about and close to the opposite about things I don't.
    I'm also very stubborn and an absolute ass if you get far enough on my bad side. I'm not a violent person but I'm unfortunately good at making words hurt.

    That sums it all up I guess... I look like a horrible person when you read all that :/ haha
     
    I'm a poor judge of character - I can trust someone who then manipulates me. I'm a perfectionist to the point of avoiding things because I'm afraid I'll do less well than I'd like. I embrace my anger/darker side. I'm not very good at making words hurt, but I don't up with ******** and not afraid to lash out physically if the bull is too strong. Society perceives it as crude, but hey I'm just playing to my strengths.
     
    I can be selfish sometimes, and I've been told I'm really stubborn.

    Other than that I'm perfect!

    I might have a slight superiority complex too.    ​
     
    I'm stubborn and I can have a temper. I also let things get to me too much and tend to overthink them, causing myself worry and emanating that worry outwards too. I'm impatient, and I can be really selfish at times. I don't trust easily, if at all. I can be self-destructive. I'm too blunt, and I guess too honest where I should otherwise leave things unsaid. Obviously different people have a different perception of me, but that's what I feel my flaws are.
     
    I can be absolutely relentless when focusing on a certain task to where I feel mentally broken at the end of the day due to how much energy I end up exerting and I have a temper that can flare up to terrifying heights in the blink of an eye but thankfully it takes a lot for me to get to those states nowadays.
     
    I'm stubborn, short-tempered, quick to pick a fight, sarcastic, very negative toward myself, can't seem to trust my own judgement, and have yet to stop holding my past against myself (i.e. believing I'm a horrible person because of it).

    But people seem to be able to tolerate me pretty well, somehow. ?_?

    Oh, and I also am too tolerant of others. I spent months allowing people in a specific class to hate me (and make it very obvious) without doing a thing about it.

    I also tend to sometimes be stupid and reckless without much regard as to potential danger. That's kind of fun, though.
     
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    I have painfully low self esteem, in fact i hate myself and have a hard time forgiving myself for mistakes I've made in the past even if i unintentionally made said mistake I'm short tempered and very stubborn. I make stupid comments and again have a hard time forgiving myself for making them. i make plans and only occasionally fallow through with them.
     
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    I'm incredibly soft. Some people like that trait of me, but in the end it turns me into a door mat, and I've only got myself to blame in the end.
     
    I like biting my fingernails when I'm bored and I like eating with my spoon and hand. (I use a fork when I need to eat pasta.) I also like to act oblivious and annoy the friends I make.
     
    For some reason I can't enjoy something fully if it's something someone else wants me to watch, unless I choose to watch it on my own terms. Like if someone sends me a video, my first thought is to temper my reaction and show less positive emotion towards it than I actually felt, and if someone tries to get me to do something more than once I start disliking the thing they want me to do without ever doing it.

    This is lessened while I'm drunk.
     
    I care too much about what people think of me. So much so that it has damaged my self-esteem in the past. This is something I've always had a problem dealing with, and I hope someday I can break out of it.
     
    I'm always right. It takes a lot for me to acknowledge if I'm wrong.
    I have a bad temper.
    My social anxiety causes situations that are easy for many to be very difficult for me.
    I am overly sentimental, which causes me to end up with a lot of clutter.
    I have problems with attaching to people, but the few I am attached to, I'm afraid I annoy them.
    I hate change, especially when I'm not warned. I tend to throw a fit when change happens, but it's not something I choose to do. It's just an automated reaction, in a way.

    I'm not a big fan of some of these things, but I feel that my flaws are part of what makes me who I am.
     
    I really have no shame acting like a nerd around my girlfriend XD she's not very tech-savvy and is always complementing me on even the simplest computer tasks.. and whenever I take her around my friends (that are into Pokemon/Nintendo), we talk about it non-stop and I seem to leave her left out because she knows nothing about Pokemon :3c
     
    I'm lazy and procrastinate too much. I'm frequently irrational, especially about stuff I suddenly don't want to do. I hate calling people on the phone. I don't take criticism very well, and the closer it is to me, the harder it is to take. Also I'm a bit stupid. And if you can't tell, a bit of a pessimist and a bit too hard on myself at times. The end. :(
     
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