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That was a little bit risky decision from your mother then, even though everything went fine I assume. What about yourself, won't you move on with your life and move out from house or something?
 
Ugh very. I even told her "why would you allow her to go? When I was 12 you wouldn't let me go out at all!" and she gave me the excuse of "andale mija, she's young, let her have fun."

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I guess it goes to show that we're under a brand new generation.
 
The younger always gets more freedom, because it takes a kid or two for the parent to realize that letting them do things like that won't kill them. I got freedom at the same time as my year older sister so I technically got it younger, but she's always been less mature than me so even though I got it younger I handled it better.
 
You avoided my second question for second time, I won't bother then. Generations change, people change and you know how it is with being the oldest or the middle child. It's usually the worst. Glad I don't have that problem really.
 
I'm an only child myself. I don't mind it much. I do see the younger kids get away with more from their parents than I could ever imagine though. Just loose parenting, I guess
 
I'm an only child, so I've always been overprotected. Though, my best friend growing up was the middle child, and she and her older sister definitely had a harder time with growing up / lack of freedom than their youngest sister. However, the eldest rebelled a lot and got "freedom" that way. x_x
 
Oryx said:
The younger always gets more freedom, because it takes a kid or two for the parent to realize that letting them do things like that won't kill them. I got freedom at the same time as my year older sister so I technically got it younger, but she's always been less mature than me so even though I got it younger I handled it better.
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that's how it is with my little sister and i. we're seven years apart. she gets away with everything. i live with it now. no big deal.
 
xxkaylabby said:
that's how it is with my little sister and i. we're seven years apart. she gets away with everything. i live with it now. no big deal.
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I think the best way to deal with it is just to ignore that fact and move on :). It's not like everything will change suddenly, right?
 
Recluse said:
I really know how overprotected really means. Trust me, I've been raised by single mom.
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Hahaha, also my situation. I'm in my twenties and I'm still told how to wake up in the morning, and do my hair, etc. -w-
 
Jude Mathis said:
Hahaha, also my situation. I'm in my twenties and I'm still told how to wake up in the morning, and do my hair, etc. -w-
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Oh God, no no no, I wouldn't even let this situation to happen. Since I went to delegation (3 years ago practically absent most of time) nobody from my family tells me what to do. They only give me advices and it's only my decision if I should or should not listen to them.
 
My mom does the "give advice about everything" thing and it drives me nuts and she gets so mad when I finally snap because she was trying to be helpful. All I say is "I'm tired" and she'll tell me to take a nap and I'll say I'm not going to because I want to do X Y and Z and instead of taking that as my reasoning she'll argue with me over why her solution is better. That was just an example but she does it with everythinggg. I've learned to just say maybe and she's learned that means "drop it" over the years though.
 
My parents still baby me a lot too. Sometimes, they kind of have to because of my special needs. It's hard for me to act very adultish at times because I never really learned how to act like one. I was never comfortable with the idea of growing out of being a child, so in my mind, that's what I am. :/

My mom seems to baby me the most though. She's always telling people about my disability, like people who don't really need to know about it. I get that she's trying to make things better, but there are times when she's only going to make it worse. I don't look or act disabled because it's more of an invisible thing. All I need is for people to get the wrong ideas about me, you know?
 
Sometimes my mother would tell people I'm something more than a construction worker in my work, like foreman for example. This is annoying me, because it's like she is ashamed of what occupation I have already. Even though I provide most of money to house :/
 
God. This topic, this god damn topic. I'm 21 mother, just cause I'm living with you doesn't mean I need career advice. But yeah, thankfully being a cook is the "in" thing(even if that's not why I chose the job) so they can gush all they want about their baby boy growing up.
 
Eeeeh, you could be 40 and if you still have regular interaction when your parents, they'd still give you orders and sometimes unwanted advice. That's how it goes.
 
Having a verbally abuse father, I can't take my parent's advice.

Also, hi, I'm alive on PC again.
 
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